My friend invited me to a fancy steakhouse downtown—the kind with dim lighting, heavy silverware, and menus that don’t list prices because they assume you’re not afraid of them.
Before we even went, I was clear. I told her I couldn’t drop $200 on dinner and that if I came, I’d keep it light. She laughed it off and said, “Of course. No problem at all.”
I believed her.
The moment we sat down, I knew this night wasn’t going to be what she promised. She ordered like it was a celebration—one of the largest steaks on the menu, cooked medium-rare, plus three sides: truffle mashed potatoes, creamed spinach, and grilled asparagus. She added a glass of wine without even glancing at the price.
When it was my turn, I ordered a small steak salad. That was it. No drink. No sides. I even skipped dessert when the waiter asked.
I tried to enjoy myself, but there was a quiet tension in my chest the whole time. I’ve known her long enough to recognize that familiar pattern—the way she likes to live big and let someone else absorb the consequences.
When the waiter finally came back and asked if we were ready for the check, she smiled brightly and said, “Oh, we’ll just split it.”
The words landed like a weight.
I didn’t argue. I didn’t correct her. I just nodded once and said, “Sure.”
A few minutes later, she excused herself to go to the restroom. The second she disappeared around the corner, I raised my hand and quietly called the waiter back.
“I need a favor,” I said calmly. “Can you add three entrées to go? The ribeye, the filet, and the salmon.”
He blinked, surprised. “All to go?”
“Yes,” I replied. “Please put them on this table’s bill.
He nodded and walked away without another question.
When she returned, the check arrived moments later.
$280.
She stared at the total, brows furrowing, lips parting in confusion. “Wow… that’s way more than I expected,” she said, tapping the receipt as if it might explain itself.
I looked at the number, then at her overflowing list of orders, and finally back at her face.
“Yeah,” I said evenly. “It adds up.”
She laughed nervously and said, “I guess prices have really gone up, huh?”
I paid my half without hesitation, picked up my bag, and stood.
As I left, the waiter handed me a neatly packed bag with three steaming boxes inside.
Dinner, after all, was something I planned to enjoy—on my own terms.