{"id":100077,"date":"2025-02-12T15:00:01","date_gmt":"2025-02-12T08:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/levanews.com\/?p=54995"},"modified":"2025-02-12T15:00:14","modified_gmt":"2025-02-12T08:00:14","slug":"i-asked-my-neighbor-to-clean-up-after-she-used-my-bbq-the-next-day-she-stuck-rules-for-my-property-on-my-door-and-demanded-i-follow-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/i-asked-my-neighbor-to-clean-up-after-she-used-my-bbq-the-next-day-she-stuck-rules-for-my-property-on-my-door-and-demanded-i-follow-them\/","title":{"rendered":"I Asked My Neighbor to Clean Up After She Used My BBQ \u2014 The Next Day She Stuck Rules for My Property on My Door and Demanded I Follow Them"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Camilla lets her new neighbor, Claire, borrow her grill\u2014but when she comes home to find a total disaster in her backyard, things take a turn. When Camilla asks for basic consideration, her neighbor responds by telling Camilla to follow her rules. However, when Camilla reveals the truth online, the consequences are much bigger than anyone could have predicted. Sometimes, people only learn through experience.\n About six months ago, a new neighbor moved in\u2014a woman in her 40s with a 16-year-old son. At first, she seemed laid-back. I even let her borrow some things and gave her permission to use my outdoor grill when we weren\u2019t home. No big deal, right?\n Wrong.\n One weekend, my husband, kids, and I went to visit my parents. We came back, and I was hit with a shock\u2014MY BACKYARD LOOKED LIKE A COLLEGE PARTY HAD JUST GONE DOWN. Empty bottles everywhere, food scraps scattered around, and the grill was filthy, like it had survived an explosion of grease.\n I asked her about it, and she just shrugged, saying it was her son’s birthday and that “it’s just kids being kids.” Apparently, I was overreacting and shouldn\u2019t make a big deal out of it. But hold on\u2014this is my backyard, not a free-for-all public park!\n So, I decide to handle things in the most reasonable way possible\u2014I write down three straightforward rules:\n I hand her the note, thinking we\u2019re finally on the same page. But the next morning, I wake up to find a list of her rules taped to my door.\n HER rules. For MY property.\n I nearly spit out my coffee as I read through them.\n Dear Neighbors!\n To ensure fairness and a friendly environment, I\u2019ve put together a few simple guidelines:\n Then my eldest daughter, Olivia, rushed up to me, clutching her phone. Without a word, she pressed play on a video.\n Claire\u2019s son, Adam, had been posting TikTok videos\u2014filmed in our backyard!\n In the clips, he and his friends were laughing, making a mess, and trashing our space\u2014all while recording it for the world to see.\n Frustrated, I stepped outside and recorded my own video. I made sure to zoom in on the absurd list of rules Claire had taped to my door. Then, I uploaded it to my socials.\n Within 72 hours, the video had exploded\u20145 million views and counting. People couldn\u2019t believe what they were seeing.\n The comment section was on fire:\n “Wait\u2026 HER rules? On YOUR house?! This is madness.”\n “Put up a fence ASAP. These people are completely delusional.”\n “What kind of game is she playing?”\n “This is the most entitled neighbor I\u2019ve ever seen.\n Two days later, just as we were sitting down for dinner, Adam showed up. The 16-year-old looked utterly defeated.\n “Ma\u2019am, please,” he muttered. “That video\u2026 it\u2019s ruining my life at school. Everyone keeps bringing it up\u2014I can\u2019t escape it.”\n I met his gaze and spoke calmly. “Actions have consequences. Do you realize now that you should\u2019ve just cleaned up after yourself? There was no reason to trashing my property like that.”\n His voice was barely above a whisper. “Yeah\u2026 I get it now.”\n I studied him for a moment before nodding. “Alright. I\u2019ll take the videos down. But remember\u2014someone else\u2019s property is not yours to use as you please.”\n He gave a small nod and walked away.\n The evening air was crisp, the usual noise of the neighborhood fading into a rare, peaceful stillness.\n Then, out of the corner of my eye, I saw her.\n Claire stood against the side of her house, a cigarette dangling from her fingers, her expression unreadable.\n “You win,” she rasped, her voice barely above a whisper.\n “I’m sorry\u2014what?” I asked, narrowing my eyes.\n “Oh, don’t play dumb, Camilla,” she sighed. “You hated the way I handled things, so you went all out. You didn\u2019t just come after me\u2014you dragged my son into it. You completely destroyed his future.”\n “Adam did that to himself,” I replied coolly. “No one made him make those choices.”\n She let out a heavy breath, her gaze fixed on the dimly lit street.\n “Really, Claire? You set rules in my house. You let your kid run wild, treating my home like his personal playground. And when I asked for a little respect, you mocked me.”\n She didn\u2019t say a word\u2014just kept staring.\n “I could’ve taken it to court. I had all the evidence I needed. But I didn\u2019t. Because I\u2019m not cruel, Claire. I just refuse to be treated like a doormat.”\n For the first time since I\u2019d known her, she looked\u2026 small. Defeated. Turning away, she flicked the ash from her cigarette, her voice barely audible.\n “Yeah,” she murmured. “I see that now.”\n And with that, I walked back inside, leaving Claire standing alone in the dark.\n \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Camilla lets her new neighbor, Claire, borrow her grill\u2014but when she comes home to find a total disaster in her backyard, things take a turn. When Camilla asks for basic consideration, her neighbor responds by telling Camilla to follow her rules. 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