However, when looking back, modern people start to notice that some upbringing methods should actually be reconsidered.\n

Making a\u00a0kid feel scared is\u00a0a\u00a0sure way to\u00a0make them obedient.\n\n
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Fear often\u00a0helps\u00a0parents get the desired behavior from their kid, however, this, in\u00a0fact, is\u00a0emotional abuse. That\u2019s because expecting their mom to\u00a0be\u00a0stolen by\u00a0the Bogeyman or\u00a0that she\u2019ll leave and never come back can leave a\u00a0trace on\u00a0a\u00a0kid\u2019s psyche and\u00a0make\u00a0them reserved and fearful. Care for a\u00a0kid\u2019s\u00a0psychological\u00a0health should be\u00a0more important than the parents\u2019 momentary desire to\u00a0make them behave properly.\n\n
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Reprimanding a\u00a0kid in\u00a0front of\u00a0others strengthens the educational effect.\n\n
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The norms of\u00a0good manners say that conflicts should be\u00a0solved alone. The attempt to\u00a0discipline\u00a0your child is\u00a0not\u00a0the same as\u00a0punishing them, and that\u2019s why parents need to\u00a0have a\u00a0mindful approach to\u00a0such dialogues.\n
Moreover, the educational process is\u00a0no\u00a0less intimate than issues with a\u00a0partner. A\u00a0husband or\u00a0wife is\u00a0unlikely to\u00a0enjoy being told off in\u00a0public. Kids can also\u00a0feel\u00a0humiliated in\u00a0such cases.\n\n
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Everyone pampers kids, it\u2019s simply impossible to\u00a0say no\u00a0to\u00a0them.\n
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It\u2019s hard to\u00a0say no\u00a0to\u00a0a\u00a0cute kid when they want something. However, it\u2019s worth remembering at\u00a0such moments that this can spoil your current relationship and their future too. All because, over time, the kid\u00a0will become\u00a0truly hysterical and demanding, and fulfilling their wishes will no\u00a0longer be\u00a0an\u00a0act of\u00a0your goodwill but your duty.\n
Also, the kid\u00a0might get\u00a0communication\u00a0issues in\u00a0the future, along with excessive weight gain if\u00a0they continue to\u00a0consume\u00a0unhealthy food uncontrollably.\n\n
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Yelling is\u00a0a\u00a0normal part of\u00a0the educative process.\n
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It\u2019s hard to\u00a0hold back the burst of\u00a0emotions when a\u00a0kid starts to\u00a0behave badly, especially in\u00a0front of\u00a0other people who will likely look at\u00a0you, a\u00a0\u201cnegligent parent,\u201d with judgment. However, the screams of\u00a0an\u00a0adult only\u00a0worsen\u00a0the situation at\u00a0this moment. It\u2019s much better to\u00a0show patience and\u00a0understanding\u00a0toward the kid from an\u00a0early age so\u00a0that they grow into a\u00a0more patient person, find a\u00a0common language with their parents more easily, and are more open-minded.\n\n
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Good grades are a\u00a0guarantee of\u00a0a\u00a0successful life in\u00a0the future.\n
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Good grades are gradually losing their hold on us. Today, it\u2019s clear that it\u2019s not the only factor that determines the success of a child. Studies have shown that personality traits, such as emotional intelligence, interpersonal skills, and leadership skills, are much more accurate in predicting a child\u2019s future potential.\n
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Personal borders are only for adults.\n\n
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There are various reasons why a kid might not want any touches, kisses, and hugs from other people, even if those are relatives. Would an adult person like it if they were forced to engage in physical contact? Obviously, no.\n
The kid also has the right to refuse such attention from adults because they also have personal boundaries. From the parents\u2019 perspective, it\u2019s correct to support these boundaries instead of forcing kids to do what they don\u2019t want to do.\n
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A\u00a0son doesn\u2019t need tenderness, otherwise, he\u00a0will grow into a\u00a0namby-pamby.\n\n
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Generally speaking, any gender stereotypes regarding kids are questionable. When it comes to affection, children of any age and gender strive to feel loved \u2014 this makes them happy and gives them self-confidence. Not giving tenderness to a kid is strange because it will make him feel unloved and foster the development of negative qualities, such as insecurity and low self-esteem.\n
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Work and money will bring more benefits to\u00a0the kid than time spent together. They will understand everything later.\n\n
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Of course, there are situations when leaving a kid with their granny or babysitter is the only possible solution. However, we all can admit that it\u2019s possible to find some time for things that are really important, even with the most hectic schedule.\n
Spending 30 minutes to read a fairy tale or go to the park on the weekend should also be parents\u2019 top priorities in addition to their career or attempts to have a personal life. This is especially true when taking into account that it directly affects how happy, self-confident, and less anxious the kid will grow up to be.\n
Do you agree that modern tendencies in raising kids are more delicate? If no, then why?\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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