{"id":76239,"date":"2024-08-09T13:48:41","date_gmt":"2024-08-09T06:48:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=76239"},"modified":"2024-08-09T13:48:41","modified_gmt":"2024-08-09T06:48:41","slug":"i-accidentally-discovered-a-creepy-detail-about-my-husband-now-i-want-to-run-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/i-accidentally-discovered-a-creepy-detail-about-my-husband-now-i-want-to-run-away\/","title":{"rendered":"I Accidentally Discovered a Creepy Detail About My Husband, Now I Want to Run Away"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>An\u00a0enigmatic discovery turned the woman\u2019s life upside down.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-2\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/b40\/a53\/0399075af68fbd48fee6952043.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image27965667\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/b40%5C/a53%5C/0399075af68fbd48fee6952043.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"826\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-2\"'>\n<p>A woman named Kathleen wrote to our editorial in order to tell us her family story. She began her letter saying that she\u2019s afraid of her husband, though he\u2019s not a person who would typically scare people off.\n</p><p>Kathleen is 37 and her husband is 40 years old. They\u2019ve been happily married for over 15 years now. The spouses have 2 kids, a big and very well-equipped, cozy house of their own and a Labrador dog. Their family picture might look idyllic and typical for all happy families, and Kathleen also thought so, until recently.\n</p><p>Two weeks ago, the family finally moved into their new home. Kathleen wrote that on that day, she was busy unpacking some of the minor stuff. She came across a box that belonged to her husband. The woman decided to check if there weren\u2019t missing things, and opened that box.\n</p><p>Kathleen found there some old photos. All of these photos were from the time when she was 20 years old. She wrote, \u201cThere were pictures of me studying in my college, working out in the gym, hanging out with my friends.\u201d It might seem that Kathleen\u2019s finding was innocent and not worth any special attention at all, but it scared the woman because of one tiny detail.\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Kathleen wrote that she was mortified when she saw the photos.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-6\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/5ca\/cff\/f3ea5d554b8ab6d9cb279eb15e.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image27965668\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/5ca%5C/cff%5C/f3ea5d554b8ab6d9cb279eb15e.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"1179\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-6\"'>\n<p>The woman goes on\u00a0with her letter, saying that the bunch of\u00a0old photos she had found actually made her feel distraught with fear. She says, \u201cAll of\u00a0these photos were from the period when\u00a0I was 20\u00a0years old, but the thing that scared me\u00a0to\u00a0death was that\u00a0I actually met my\u00a0husband for the very first time when\u00a0I was celebrating my\u00a023rd birthday. We\u00a0had never known each other before, I\u00a0had never met him until an\u00a0accidental encounter during my\u00a0birthday party.\u201d\n</p><p>Kathleen explained that the photos were not just from the epoch when she didn\u2019t even suspect that her future husband existed, but they all were made in\u00a0the places where she normally went, but she didn\u2019t have them in\u00a0her own family album, and she couldn\u2019t recall anyone from her family taking such photos at\u00a0that moment.\n</p><p>All of\u00a0these really made the woman panic, as\u00a0she was trying to\u00a0collect her thoughts and find at\u00a0least some explanation of\u00a0what this all really meant.\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Further findings put the woman in\u00a0an\u00a0even deeper shock.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-10\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/dbd\/94e\/3be033594ab4d12de26a2337d5.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image27965669\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/dbd%5C/94e%5C/3be033594ab4d12de26a2337d5.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"928\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-10\"'>\n<p>As\u00a0Kathleen looked more in\u00a0the same box, she discovered more disturbing things. Her husband kept a\u00a0list of\u00a0the places she used to\u00a0visit back then, like the shops, the gym, the beauty salons. He\u00a0had information about all of\u00a0Kathleen\u2019s friends and their personal details. He\u00a0even knew all men that his wife dated so\u00a0many years ago.\n</p><p>Kathleen also came across her husband\u2019s personal diary. From there, she found out that he\u00a0staged their first time meeting. He\u00a0appeared in\u00a0that same place where Kathleen celebrated her 23rd birthday, and he\u00a0knew she would be\u00a0there, as\u00a0she visited that place often and he\u00a0knew\u00a0it.\n</p><p>The woman suddenly realized why her husband always knew exactly what things she liked. She used to\u00a0explain this by\u00a0the fact that they were soulmates, but in\u00a0reality he\u00a0appeared to\u00a0be\u00a0just a\u00a0creep who was spying after her.\n</p><p>Strangely, Kathleen admitted that she had never really felt like she was under his control. Her husband always showered the woman with care and love, she couldn\u2019t say that he\u00a0was controlling. He\u00a0was so\u00a0loving, sweet and passionate that Kathleen felt the luckiest woman in\u00a0the Universe to\u00a0be\u00a0with her husband.\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>The woman now has an\u00a0urge to\u00a0run away from her creepy husband.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-14\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/cf5\/2d3\/efeb1d5c798a846d2c4efe849d.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image27965670\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/cf5%5C/2d3%5C/efeb1d5c798a846d2c4efe849d.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"662\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-14\"'>\n<p>Kathleen was so\u00a0shocked by\u00a0the things she had found that it\u00a0took a\u00a0month for her to\u00a0finally be\u00a0able to\u00a0talk to\u00a0her husband about everything. She sat down with him one evening and told him everything, and she also showed him her findings. The only thing she wanted from him is\u00a0that he\u00a0told her the truth.\n</p><p>Surprisingly, her spouse didn\u2019t deny anything. He\u00a0revealed that he\u00a0once saw her at\u00a0her gym and instantly knew he\u00a0wanted to\u00a0date Kathleen. So\u00a0he\u00a0followed her around. Her husband would often be\u00a0sitting outside Kathleen\u2019s house back then, in\u00a0order to\u00a0see where she would\u00a0go. Then, when he\u00a0saw the disco place Kathleen used to\u00a0go\u00a0to\u00a0with her company quite often, he\u00a0appeared there at\u00a0the right time, just for her Birthday party.\n</p><p>Kathleen admitted that at\u00a0that moment she felt sick to\u00a0her stomach. She was distraught with fear and anger, she cried. Her husband tried to\u00a0comfort her and begged her to\u00a0forgive him. He\u00a0admitted that what he\u00a0did was wrong, but the love he\u00a0had for her was pure.\n</p><p>Now, Kathleen wants a\u00a0divorce, but she also considered the therapy for them both to\u00a0see where they both stand. She is\u00a0seriously questioning her marriage now and can\u2019t get rid of\u00a0the feeling that her husband had been controlling all her life, without her even knowing\u00a0it. But the woman also admitted that, at\u00a0the same time, he\u00a0was the best partner she\u2019s ever had. He\u00a0has always been a\u00a0perfect husband and a\u00a0very loving father.\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>We\u2019d advise Kathleen to\u00a0not be\u00a0in\u00a0a\u00a0hurry with divorce.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-18\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/a71\/3d2\/5ace295c6c93322ab2c630b8f0.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image27965671\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/a71%5C/3d2%5C/5ace295c6c93322ab2c630b8f0.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"872\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-18\"'>\n<p>We\u2019re sincerely grateful to Kathleen for her trust and for sharing her story with us. Our advice to the woman would be to think things over and not to consider a divorce as the only way out. We also think that what her husband did, was too much, and probably he shouldn\u2019t have spied after her, let alone taking all these photos without her consent.\n</p><p>But, on the other hand, he never used his knowledge about her for doing something bad to the woman. Kathleen confessed that he has always been the best both as a husband and as a dad, so, before trying to split with her husband, we\u2019d advise Kathleen to consider both a therapy and some more talks with her husband.\n</p><p>She could have a kind of agreement with him for their further life that they don\u2019t interfere with each other\u2019s private space anymore. Letting the past remain in the past, this is what we\u2019d sincerely advise to the woman.\n</p><p>And here\u2019s a piece of advice from a professional on how to spot an evil-minded person in your surrounding.\n</p><p>Preview photo credit Ludovic Migneault \/ Unsplash\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>An\u00a0enigmatic discovery turned the woman\u2019s life upside down. A woman named Kathleen wrote to our editorial in order to tell us her family story. She began her letter saying that she\u2019s afraid of her husband, though he\u2019s not a person who would typically scare people off. 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