A woman recently shared her story on Reddit, revealing a troubling situation with her fiance. According to her post, her fianc\u00e9 expected her to pay the restaurant bill for him and his friends, citing her higher income as the reason.\n
She explained that she had recently received a 30% raise at work, which led to her fianc\u00e9 frequently suggesting that she cover more expenses. \u201cI\u2019m 33 and engaged to my fianc\u00e9, who\u2019s 37. We don\u2019t share finances because that\u2019s what he prefers. Since I got a 30% raise, I\u2019ve noticed he\u2019s been asking me to pay for him and his friends more often. When I question why, he just says, \u2018Because of the 30%.\u2019 It feels like he thinks it\u2019s unfair or that I don\u2019t deserve it.\u201d\n
The woman shared that her fianc\u00e9 had tricked her into paying for meals multiple times by asking her in public, where she felt too polite to refuse. She had finally had enough and made it clear before their most recent dinner outing that she wouldn\u2019t be footing the bill. \u201cLast Tuesday, he invited me to dinner with his buddies. I told him upfront that I wasn\u2019t paying this time, and he assured me he \u2018got this.\u2019\u201d\n
However, during the meal, her fianc\u00e9 whispered to her that she would be paying for everything. When she refused, he tried to pressure her, saying, \u201cYou have enough money to cover everyone\u2019s food. Remember the 30%?\u201d\n
Angry and frustrated, she decided to quietly pay her own bill and leave. \u201cI was furious, but I didn\u2019t want to lose my temper. When the bills came, they were already split from the start. I paid for mine, excused myself to the restroom, and then left the restaurant. I got into my car and went home.\u201d\n
Her fianc\u00e9 quickly began calling and texting her, asking where she had gone. She explained her frustration with being tricked into paying for his friends again, and then she stopped responding. \u201cAn hour later, he came home, yelling at me, calling me selfish, irrational, a cheapskate, and childish for leaving him with a bill he couldn\u2019t pay. He had to call his brother for help. We had a loud argument, and then he walked out. He told me his friends are disappointed in my behavior and that they\u2019re advising him to \u2018reflect\u2019 on the type of woman he\u2019s planning to marry.\u201d\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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