{"id":78887,"date":"2024-08-30T11:40:23","date_gmt":"2024-08-30T04:40:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=78887"},"modified":"2024-08-30T11:40:23","modified_gmt":"2024-08-30T04:40:23","slug":"a-parent-reported-me-to-admin-because-my-outfits-distracted-her-son","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/a-parent-reported-me-to-admin-because-my-outfits-distracted-her-son\/","title":{"rendered":"A Parent Reported Me to Admin Because My Outfits \u201cDistracted\u201d Her Son"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>The woman\u00a0shared\u00a0her story.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-2\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/dd7\/68d\/73af6f597aa21400707aad9c7a.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image28018656\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/dd7%5C/68d%5C/73af6f597aa21400707aad9c7a.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"917\"'>\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>I am a middle school teacher that is teaching 8th grade this year. I have (for lack of better words) a really big chest, which is hard to conceal. I always follow dress code and have never been dress coded in the 6 years I\u2019ve been in education. Everyone always compliments my outfits!\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>A parent reported the woman to admin.\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>My admin told me that a parent came up to the school and said that their son was talking about my boobs at home, and they were concerned that I was not following dress code for him to be able to see my chest. My admin straight-up told the parent that I always follow the dress code, and I am just naturally \u201cblessed\u201d. I\u2019m just a curvy girl, and I physically cannot hide it.\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>The admin was very supportive.\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>The \u201cnaturally blessed\u201d comment is how the administrator said it to me. She\u2019s a woman and that\u2019s how she talks. I\u2019m not sure if she said it to the parent like that.\n</p><p>I personally didn\u2019t mind the comment, but I understand why people wouldn\u2019t like it. It may be a cultural difference on how we perceive this statement. She was very, very supportive of me, and I didn\u2019t feel that she was siding with the parent in that whole interaction.\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>She doesn\u2019t know who reported her.\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>I\u00a0don\u2019t know who the kid\/parent is\u00a0because they didn\u2019t tell me\u00a0who it\u00a0was. I\u00a0personally think that\u2019s for the better, because I\u2019m scared if\u00a0I figured it\u00a0out, I\u00a0would feel weird around the kid. So, it\u2019s just better for me\u00a0to\u00a0not know and push forward knowing that the admin has my\u00a0back and that I\u2019m doing everything right!\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>People took her side.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-15\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/2b5\/413\/03fb0b52329da9281fe7970d83.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image28018657\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/2b5%5C/413%5C/03fb0b52329da9281fe7970d83.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"880\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div>\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>\u00a9 Olga Zhuravleva \/ Unsplash\n</p><ul>\n<li>It says a lot that this parent&rsquo;s response to their 13-year-old sexualizing their teacher was to run and complain to the principal because you have a body, instead of telling the kid to focus on school and, by the way, we don&rsquo;t talk about women like that. gravitydefiant \/ Reddit\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<ul>\n<li>When I was in college, I was called in to the Ed department office. My cooperating teacher complained that I wasn&rsquo;t dressed professionally. I 100% was and offered to show them my clothes. I can&rsquo;t help it if my chest is big.<br>\nI was so mad. I don&rsquo;t understand what this woman was thinking, nothing I wore was in any inappropriate. Like, sorry, I&rsquo;m a woman. I wouldn&rsquo;t worry about it too much, just keep being appropriate.\u00a0theatregirl1987 \/ Reddit\n</li><li>I can&rsquo;t imagine hearing something like this from my son and my first reaction being, &ldquo;Oh, I better complain to the principal about this.&rdquo; I can&rsquo;t imagine hearing this complaint from a parent as an administrator and my reaction being anything other than telling them to leave. Poor parenting, unreal.\u00a0travis_mke \/ Reddit\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<ul>\n<li>And instead of the parent scolding their child for ogling an adult in an authority role, the parents go straight to admin. Can\u2019t stand it when parents just take their kids word at face value. Open-Hedgehog7756 \/ Reddit.\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>When a friend goes out of their way to make something special for you, it\u2019s normal to feel happy and appreciated. But what do you do when that gift turns out to be a total mess? One of\u00a0our\u00a0readers\u00a0got a\u00a0birthday surprise from her artist friend that quickly turned into an\u00a0awkward and tense situation.\n\n</p><p>Preview photo credit\u00a0Olga Zhuravleva \/ Unsplash,\u00a0xtinalaperra \/ Reddit\n</p><p>&nbsp;\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>The woman\u00a0shared\u00a0her story. I am a middle school teacher that is teaching 8th grade this year. I have (for lack of better words) a really big chest, which is hard to conceal. I always follow dress code and have never been dress coded in the 6 years I\u2019ve been in education. 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