{"id":79471,"date":"2024-09-05T13:35:19","date_gmt":"2024-09-05T06:35:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=79471"},"modified":"2024-09-10T09:51:48","modified_gmt":"2024-09-10T02:51:48","slug":"my-fiancee-shocked-me-with-her-plea-to-put-her-dead-husbands-pics-on-our-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-fiancee-shocked-me-with-her-plea-to-put-her-dead-husbands-pics-on-our-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"My Fianc\u00e9e Shocked Me with Her Plea to Put Her Dead Husband\u2019s Pics on Our Wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>The man shared\u00a0his story.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-2\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/57a\/640\/29ee0b5fbd8c6cd9e9887ac768.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image404491\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/57a%5C/640%5C/29ee0b5fbd8c6cd9e9887ac768.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"759\"'>\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>My\u00a0fianc\u00e9e and\u00a0I have been together for about 3\u00a0years. We\u00a0got engaged 6\u00a0months ago.\n</p><p>We\u00a0were doing some planning, and she mentioned, \u201cWhere do\u00a0you think \u2019late husband\u2019s name\u2019 pic could\u00a0go?\u201d I\u00a0was confused and asked her to\u00a0clarify.\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-4\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/614\/baf\/c445365340a8a94e86d146e084.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image404492\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/614%5C/baf%5C/c445365340a8a94e86d146e084.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"527\"'>\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>She said she wanted her late husband\u2019s picture at\u00a0the wedding, she went into more detail, at\u00a0my\u00a0request.\n</p><p>She wants one of\u00a0the bridesmaids to\u00a0hold his picture during the ceremony. As\u00a0well as\u00a0having his pic on\u00a0our table. And when taking pictures, she wants to\u00a0hold him in\u00a0most photos.\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-7\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/549\/9fc\/b4556750b8b784b37ac9c73cee.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image404493\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/549%5C/9fc%5C/b4556750b8b784b37ac9c73cee.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"653\"'>\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>I\u00a0told her that\u00a0I didn\u2019t want that, and while\u00a0I understand he\u2019s important to\u00a0her, I\u2019d feel uncomfortable with his pictures at\u00a0our wedding, especially when they\u2019re so\u00a0prominent.\n</p><p>We\u00a0got into a\u00a0fight, and she yelled, \u201cI\u00a0can\u2019t believe you\u2019re jealous! He\u2019s dead!\u201d\n</p><p>I\u00a0decided to\u00a0postpone the wedding, and honestly, I\u2019m thinking of\u00a0calling it\u00a0off all together.\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>People made different suggestions, some even compared with their own experience.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-10\"'>\n<picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/467\/263\/4acb18502fa3ccaf3300a613cd.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image404494\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/467%5C/263%5C/4acb18502fa3ccaf3300a613cd.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"806\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n\n\n\n<div class='\"a7a009a2bc69238836f2\"'>\n<aside class='\"ca17a89d1f9c34c777a4\"' data-test-id='\"advert-d-inread-l-2\"' data-adunit-type='\"d-inread-l-2\"' data-adunit-started='\"true\"'>\n<div class='\"f5404ebf8cd5437b33d6\"'>\n<ul>\n<li>Having a\u00a0memorial table for passed loved ones is\u00a0one thing&hellip; but this is\u00a0excessive and definitely shows she\u2019s having some\u00a0emotional\u00a0struggles.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0exhaustedmind247\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>At\u00a0my\u00a0wedding we\u00a0had a\u00a0single seat with a\u00a0sign that said \u201cwe\u00a0know you would be\u00a0here today, if\u00a0heaven weren\u2019t so\u00a0far away\u201d and photos of\u00a0our loved ones who had passed. Saving a\u00a0seat for them was meaningful and made it\u00a0feel like they were included in\u00a0our wedding. Wanting a\u00a0photo of\u00a0late husband in\u00a0something like this, alongside other late family members would be\u00a0entirely appropriate. But holding a\u00a0photo, having the photo on\u00a0the main table etc is\u00a0just&hellip; no.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0QueenOfNZ\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>My\u00a0dad died suddenly 10\u00a0years ago and my\u00a0step-mom and\u00a0I both took it\u00a0really hard. If\u00a0my\u00a0step-mom ever marries again, I\u00a0would find it\u00a0very strange if\u00a0she insisted on\u00a0having my\u00a0dad\u2019s picture there, the way OP\u2019s fianc\u00e9e is\u00a0requesting. I\u00a0don\u2019t think OP\u2019s fianc\u00e9e is\u00a0ready. Maybe she feels guilty for moving on\u00a0and this somehow relieves her guilt?\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Sad_Anything_3273\u00a0\/ Reddit\n\n\n\n<aside class='\"ca17a89d1f9c34c777a4\"' data-test-id='\"advert-d-inread-r-2\"' data-adunit-type='\"d-inread-r-2\"' data-adunit-started='\"true\"'>\n<div class='\"f5404ebf8cd5437b33d6\"'>\n\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-13\"'>\n<picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/d88\/66c\/4678f35175ab834aac6790d83a.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image404495\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/d88%5C/66c%5C/4678f35175ab834aac6790d83a.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"831\"'>\n<section class='\"d17df1a8ad4a418bd28a' be4f2b8f955c4fc8bea6 data-id='\"404495\"'>\n<div class='\"e98cf7c6464e2e984a41\"'>\n<div class='\"aed62af27ad9dd3e8c03' ed99307b75b012ec4c7a e2efe1fd378420e9f526>\n<div class='\"d2e9be9853b74c32d4d7\"' data-test-id='\"new-comment-editor\"'>\n<div class='\"d10f0e848414f3f0b260\"'>\n<form class='\"bc5d2f670964baf0d1df\"' data-test-id='\"comment-editor-form\"'>\n<div class='\"ce9be2020e1a2a183cb6\"' data-test-id='\"actions-block\"'>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<ul>\n<li>Widow here! I think this person has way more work to do on their grief journey before they\u2019re ready for a new relationship, let alone a new marriage. \u00a9 Ok_Emu5882 \/ Reddit\n</li><li>I became a widow at 36. She aint ready. NTA. I suggest some therapy for her and both of you (like pre-marriage stuff). \u00a9 Anabanana831 \/ Reddit\n</li><li>She\u2019s still grieving a\u00a0dead husband this outwardly, she is\u00a0not ready. If\u00a0it\u00a0were a\u00a0\u201cHey do\u00a0you think we\u00a0could do\u00a0a\u00a0memorial board with photos of\u00a0family that cant make it\u00a0because they\u2019re not here? And would it\u00a0be\u00a0okay to\u00a0put photo up\u00a0to\u00a0respect his memory too?\u201d That\u2019d be\u00a0different, as\u00a0its not just the dead husband being\u00a0remembered. But to\u00a0be\u00a0this way? She needs greif counseling.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0PandaSims\u00a0\/ RedditMarriage\u00a0is\u00a0full of\u00a0surprises, so\u00a0it\u2019s crucial to\u00a0have honest conversations about key aspects of\u00a0your past before tying the knot. This way, you won\u2019t be\u00a0caught off guard by\u00a0unexpected\u00a0secrets\u00a0later\u00a0on. Open dialogue helps build trust and understanding from the start.Preview photo credit freepik \/ Freepik, Unknown author \/ Reddit\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The man shared\u00a0his story. My\u00a0fianc\u00e9e and\u00a0I have been together for about 3\u00a0years. We\u00a0got engaged 6\u00a0months ago. We\u00a0were doing some planning, and she mentioned, \u201cWhere do\u00a0you think \u2019late husband\u2019s name\u2019 pic could\u00a0go?\u201d I\u00a0was confused and asked her to\u00a0clarify. She said she wanted her late husband\u2019s picture at\u00a0the wedding, she went into more detail, at\u00a0my\u00a0request. 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