{"id":79479,"date":"2024-09-05T14:10:59","date_gmt":"2024-09-05T07:10:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=79479"},"modified":"2024-09-05T14:10:59","modified_gmt":"2024-09-05T07:10:59","slug":"my-husbands-mistress-came-to-my-house-with-their-baby-revealing-his-infidelity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-husbands-mistress-came-to-my-house-with-their-baby-revealing-his-infidelity\/","title":{"rendered":"My Husband\u2019s Mistress Came to My House with Their Baby, Revealing His Infidelity"},"content":{"rendered":"
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She\u00a0shared\u00a0what happened.\n\n
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My\u00a0common law\u00a0husband and I, 40f and 41m, have been together for 10\u00a0years and\u00a0I consider those years to\u00a0be\u00a0very loving and happy, but apparently not for him since he\u00a0had a\u00a0side piece.\n

I\u00a0make furniture and make around \u20ac1M\u00a0a year. My\u00a0husband is\u00a0a\u00a0teacher. It\u00a0goes without saying that\u00a0I provide for\u00a0us. I\u00a0don\u2019t ask what he\u00a0does with his salary. We\u00a0live way below our means however because we\u00a0are both minimalists, but we\u00a0have a\u00a0big house, nice cars, and lots of\u00a0art. Everything is\u00a0mine, however.\n\n

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Apparently, he\u00a0met his side piece (f25) under false pretenses and told her that we\u00a0were legally married, so\u00a0he\u00a0owned 1\/2\u00a0my company and everything else I\u00a0own. When she got pregnant, he\u00a0started spending his salary on\u00a0her (I\u00a0wasn\u2019t alarmed because\u00a0I didn\u2019t know what he\u00a0did with his money). Now he\u00a0is\u00a0in\u00a0Dubai on\u00a0vacation and her lease on\u00a0her apartment expired, so\u00a0she just showed up\u00a0at\u00a0my\u00a0door with her baby.\n

She told me\u00a0she was his girlfriend and that he\u00a0was getting a\u00a0divorce, so\u00a0she might as\u00a0well live in\u00a0his house and\u00a0I could live in\u00a0a\u00a0hotel because\u00a0I could afford\u00a0it. She didn\u2019t have any money or\u00a0home. She literally refused to\u00a0step out, so\u00a0I called the police and locked myself in\u00a0the greenhouse.\n

When the police came, she was literally unpacking the child\u2019s clothes in\u00a0the living area. They escorted her out. I\u00a0was very shaken. Later I\u00a0found out all the details\u00a0I included above.\n\n

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My\u00a0husband\u2019s mother thought\u00a0I was a\u00a0jerk for kicking out a\u00a0little baby on\u00a0the street. That was her only grandson. I\u00a0used my\u00a0money and power to\u00a0control everything around\u00a0me.\n

But honestly, teachers make 60k a\u00a0year so\u00a0as\u00a0I found out later, he\u00a0gave her his salary. I\u00a0can\u2019t understand why she would be\u00a0so\u00a0homeless and destitute. She had big designer bags, a\u00a0designer stroller, and Van Cleef& Arpels jewelry when she showed up\u00a0at\u00a0my\u00a0home. But now I\u00a0am a\u00a0jerk?\n\n

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People stood on\u00a0her side.\n\n
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I would pack all his stuff up and put it in storage. I would talk to your Lawyer and do everything right and legal. I would get a restrainer order against her. I would tell grandma to take them in. You don’t need someone like that. Once they are gone, you have your whole life.\n

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  • \u201cShe showed up\u00a0at\u00a0your house and tried to\u00a0claim\u00a0it, she did not care about kicking you out of\u00a0your own home like she owned\u00a0it. Her and that teacher should get use to\u00a0living on\u00a0a\u00a0teachers\u2019 salary lmao crazy levels of\u00a0entitlement. It\u2019s absolutely insane that everyone is\u00a0just trying to\u00a0leech off of\u00a0you because you have money. Your life is\u00a0going to\u00a0be\u00a0much better off without all of\u00a0them in\u00a0it.\u201d\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0BoxSea4289\u00a0\/ Reddit\n
  • \u201cI\u2019m so\u00a0sorry he\u00a0has been so\u00a0selfish and dishonest with you. Pack his stuff into some big boxes and leave it\u00a0in\u00a0the garage for him to\u00a0collect. Hopefully, he\u00a0can\u2019t access the house from there. Let him know you\u2019re done with his lies, and you need space to\u00a0heal and move on\u00a0from his selfishness. Not your deal, other than your poor heart. His mum can take him in\u00a0if\u00a0she\u2019s so\u00a0adamant you\u2019re in\u00a0the wrong. Good riddance to\u00a0her, too.\u201d\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Werm_Vessel\u00a0\/ Reddit\n
  • She should\u2019ve spent the money he\u00a0gave her on\u00a0the baby instead of\u00a0shopping. You are not responsible for your husbands\u2019 affair child, and the way she showed up\u00a0and was expecting you to\u00a0just leave is\u00a0entitled and disrespectful.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Significant_Gur5570\u00a0\/ Reddit\n\n\n\n
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    • Seek a\u00a0restraining order and if\u00a0you don\u2019t have them yet, get security cameras throughout the property ASAP. I\u00a0would also consult a\u00a0lawyer and start working on\u00a0your separation\/divorce. After all, if\u00a0he\u00a0told her he\u2019s getting a\u00a0divorce, you might as\u00a0well grant his wish, right?\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0virtualchoirboy\u00a0\/ Reddit\n
    • This lady is\u00a0exactly the type of\u00a0person who would use tenant rights laws to\u00a0screw you if\u00a0you let her stay at\u00a0your house. The only safe answer for a\u00a0grifter with no\u00a0life skills is\u00a0\u201cno\u201d, double that if\u00a0they have actually harmed you with their choices previously.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0HomespunPeanutButter\u00a0\/ Reddit\n
    • Change the locks, he\u00a0can get in\u00a0at\u00a0any time and break into your house. Put his stuff in\u00a0your garage, with damage any property of\u00a0him. Be\u00a0careful and no\u00a0contact because he\u00a0can be\u00a0manipulative and can make you feel bad. He\u00a0didn\u2019t make a\u00a0mistake, he\u00a0knows what he\u00a0is\u00a0doing, but he\u00a0doesn\u2019t know that his secret can be\u00a0known by\u00a0you, now he\u00a0is\u00a0scare because he\u00a0can lose you and your money, that was he\u00a0is\u00a0afraid. If\u00a0he\u00a0cared about you, he\u00a0wouldn\u2019t be\u00a0a\u00a0cheater.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Blakie_11\u00a0\/ Reddit\n\n\n
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      Unfortunately, such events do\u00a0happen. Here\u2019s the\u00a0story\u00a0of\u00a0a\u00a0woman who found out that her beloved husband married her only for her inheritance.\n

      Preview photo credit\u00a0Pxhere,\u00a0MonthFar2068 \/ Reddit\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      She\u00a0shared\u00a0what happened. My\u00a0common law\u00a0husband and I, 40f and 41m, have been together for 10\u00a0years and\u00a0I consider those years to\u00a0be\u00a0very loving and happy, but apparently not for him since he\u00a0had a\u00a0side piece. I\u00a0make furniture and make around \u20ac1M\u00a0a year. My\u00a0husband is\u00a0a\u00a0teacher. It\u00a0goes without saying that\u00a0I provide for\u00a0us. I\u00a0don\u2019t ask what he\u00a0does with his salary. We\u00a0live way …\n","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":79481,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79479","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moral-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79479","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79479"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79479\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":79482,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79479\/revisions\/79482"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79481"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79479"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79479"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79479"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}