{"id":79799,"date":"2024-09-09T08:59:13","date_gmt":"2024-09-09T01:59:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=79799"},"modified":"2024-09-09T08:59:13","modified_gmt":"2024-09-09T01:59:13","slug":"my-dil-insulted-me-being-unaware-i-was-supporting-their-family-my-revenge-made-her-turn-pale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-dil-insulted-me-being-unaware-i-was-supporting-their-family-my-revenge-made-her-turn-pale\/","title":{"rendered":"My DIL Insulted Me Being Unaware I Was Supporting Their Family, My Revenge Made Her Turn Pale"},"content":{"rendered":"
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A\u00a0woman wrote to\u00a0us to\u00a0share her absolutely dramatic family story.\n\n
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A\u00a059-year-old woman, named Rosa, has recently written a\u00a0letter to\u00a0our editorial.\n

She started, saying, \u201cHi, I\u2019m Rosa, and\u00a0I have never thought\u00a0I would do\u00a0what I\u2019ve done to\u00a0my\u00a0son\u2019s family. But the circumstances were such, that\u00a0I couldn\u2019t remain passive and silent, and\u00a0I really had to\u00a0teach them all a\u00a0good lesson. However, I\u00a0don\u2019t feel relieved after that, and I\u00a0do need advice on\u00a0whether\u00a0I acted in\u00a0a\u00a0wrong way with them and if\u00a0my\u00a0verdict for them was too much.\u201d\n

Rosa continued her story, saying, that she\u2019s a\u00a0widow, and she\u2019s been living alone in\u00a0a\u00a0big country house, which was a\u00a0heritage from her grandma. In\u00a0that house her son, Nigel, 35, was born and raised, and to\u00a0that very house he\u00a0first brought his then-girlfriend and now-wife Helen.\n

Rosa says that she clearly remembers her first meeting with Helen, as\u00a0if\u00a0it\u00a0was just yesterday. The woman gives more details about\u00a0it, saying, \u201cI\u00a0somehow had this gut feeling, from the very start, that Helen and\u00a0I will never be\u00a0friends. From the beginning, she was acting like a\u00a0snub, asking me\u00a0about my\u00a0education and my\u00a0background, and\u00a0I really felt like\u00a0I was at\u00a0a\u00a0job interview rather than at a first meeting with my DIL.\u201d\n\n

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Rosa and Helen have never been in\u00a0a\u00a0peaceful relationship with one another.\n\n
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Rosa goes on\u00a0with her story, saying, that since their first meeting, Helen has barely changed her attitude to\u00a0her. She was constantly poking fun at\u00a0Rosa, who used to\u00a0work as\u00a0a\u00a0cleaner in\u00a0the past, that her job was \u201cindecent\u201d. She called her \u201cilliterate\u201d and advised her to\u00a0read more books.\n

Rosa was swallowing those bitter pills, one after the other, for the sake of\u00a0her son\u2019s happiness. As\u00a0it\u00a0often happens, despite his wife\u2019s character, Nigel loved Helen with all his heart, and they were building their own family together. So\u00a0Rosa just wanted to\u00a0see less of\u00a0Helen in\u00a0her house, but was always happy to\u00a0see Nigel and her 2\u00a0grandchildren, Mike and Tommy.\n

When Nigel lost his job as\u00a0a\u00a0CEO of\u00a0a\u00a0huge multinational company, it\u00a0was a\u00a0stroke for the whole family, including Rosa. She was pretty aware of\u00a0the fact that Nigel would be\u00a0struggling to\u00a0find a\u00a0new job very fast, because by\u00a0that time, he\u00a0had earned not a\u00a0very good reputation in\u00a0the business. In\u00a0the meantime, Nigel\u2019s family needed to\u00a0move out of\u00a0their rented house, and they would have to\u00a0look for something that would be\u00a0cheaper to\u00a0rent, as\u00a0the family was running short of\u00a0money.\n

Rosa stepped in, and made a huge decision. She bought a house for Nigel and his family, spending all her life savings and also the money that her late husband left after his passing. She bought it on her own name, and presented it like it was Nigel\u2019s decision to purchase a home, and the money was his heritage.\n\n

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Helen was unaware of\u00a0Rosa\u2019s huge income into their family.\n\n
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Rosa goes\u00a0on, saying, \u201cI\u00a0never wanted to\u00a0tell Helen about who really bought that house for them. I\u00a0went even further and, knowing that they all had a\u00a0huge financial struggle, I\u00a0started wiring pretty good amounts from the money\u00a0I still had from my\u00a0late husband, to\u00a0Nigel\u2019s account. He\u00a0was against this help at\u00a0the beginning, but he\u00a0pretty much needed it\u00a0when he\u00a0continued looking for a\u00a0decent job for himself.\u201d\n

Rosa wrote that her\u00a0relationship\u00a0with Helen didn\u2019t become any better with time. On\u00a0the contrary, Helen was now even more insulting towards Rosa, because of\u00a0the financial crisis their family was enduring.\n

Helen didn\u2019t miss a\u00a0chance to\u00a0tell Rosa that she\u2019s guilty in\u00a0raising a\u00a0son who\u2019s totally not accommodated for life and who\u2019s \u201cso\u00a0worthless that he\u00a0can\u2019t stand for himself during an\u00a0interview.\u201d She seemed to\u00a0have forgotten how successful Nigel was at\u00a0his previous job and how hard he\u00a0had worked to\u00a0achieve his former success.\n\n

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The unhealthy situation reached its peak one day, during a\u00a0family trip.\n\n
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Rosa goes on\u00a0with her story, saying, that she finally lost all her patience during an\u00a0ordinary family trip with Helen, Nigel and her two grandsons. The woman confessed that she wasn\u2019t quite willing to\u00a0go\u00a0to\u00a0that trip together with Helen, but the kids wanted to\u00a0see their granny and spend time with her so\u00a0badly, that she finally joined them.\n

During the trip, Helen was behaving just rude. Rosa wrote, \u201cShe was throwing insults at\u00a0me\u00a0during all our trip. She called me\u00a0an\u00a0\u2018old lady\u2019 and advised that I\u2019d better \u2018stay home and clean\u2019. This was really the last straw, and\u00a0I made a\u00a0painful decision.\u201d\n

Rosa revealed, that her revenge was painful for her, too, but she just couldn\u2019t stand this anymore. She says, \u201cI\u00a0returned home, silently. The first thing\u00a0I did was\u00a0I sold their house. It\u00a0was bought under my\u00a0name, I\u00a0was a\u00a0legitimate owner of\u00a0it. So, I\u00a0had put it\u00a0for sale, and then\u00a0I waited for Nigel and Helen to\u00a0call me\u00a0to\u00a0announce them my\u00a0decision. I\u00a0wasn\u2019t going to\u00a0explain anything, I\u00a0believed they would understand everything, because this all has been just too much, and they both must have realized\u00a0it.\u201d\n\n

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Helen didn\u2019t accept the bad news well.\n\n
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