{"id":79963,"date":"2024-09-09T15:44:45","date_gmt":"2024-09-09T08:44:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=79963"},"modified":"2024-09-09T15:44:45","modified_gmt":"2024-09-09T08:44:45","slug":"i-prohibited-my-husband-to-send-money-to-his-mom-now-she-says-i-ruined-her-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/i-prohibited-my-husband-to-send-money-to-his-mom-now-she-says-i-ruined-her-life\/","title":{"rendered":"I Prohibited My Husband to Send Money to His Mom, Now She Says I Ruined Her Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>She\u00a0explained\u00a0what happened.\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>My (33f) and my husband Matteo (31m) have been married for 4 months, together for 3 years. When we were dating, his mom used to randomly call him up and ask for money, anywhere from 2-6 thousand dollars. He told me that she had been doing it for years, but he didn\u2019t care because he had a high-paying job and had the disposable income to give her money.\n</p><p>My FIL is a successful businessman in his city, and I was told that they had joint accounts, so I always found it a bit odd that she asked her son for money. When we got engaged, we discussed his mom\u2019s monetary requests and my husband agreed he would put an end to it, and he did. She stopped calling after he refused to give her money.\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-3\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/083\/c58\/a571b1552297333d77d1aeca90.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image28018343\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/083%5C/c58%5C/a571b1552297333d77d1aeca90.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"486\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\u00a9\u00a0cottonbro studio \/ Pexels\n<div>\n<div class='\"d4cd5e4d1c37eb7b6e0b' d6e6c99797533fcec215 data-test-id='\"article-image-3\"'>\n<div class='\"a6462aa5ffcd6c76e41f' b7455aa58c4067faa6bf title='\"Share' on facebook data-test-id='\"share-button-facebook\"'>\n\n\n\n<section class='\"d17df1a8ad4a418bd28a' be4f2b8f955c4fc8bea6 data-id='\"28018343\"'>\n<div class='\"e98cf7c6464e2e984a41\"'>\n<div class='\"cfb3f23555ca9ed06b59' c1de209055b812e6d816 ec856658714ac17699e8 data-test-id='\"image-comments-block\"'>\n<article class='\"bec6297de89e70d03555' indent-0 data-test-id='\"comment-0\"'>\n<div class='\"a3bdcb1eddb443076429\"' data-id='\"comment-902909\"'>\n<div class='\"c5b343e04b03109896af\"'>\n<div class='\"dddd159711f2b7406ee1\"'>\n<div class='\"b12a965da465bcd5d669\"'>\n<div class='\"f524c4156fa51b5cc119\"'>\n<div class='\"e580254224965777ea47\"' data-test-id='\"comment-text\"'>\n<p>I think, I can never earn over which I paid by my precedent employer, but I was wrong, world is so large to try their fate. but now I am making $52\/h even more,and easily earn minimum $1300\/week, on the experience everyone must try to do work online, easy way to earn, here&rsquo;s an example.\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>Last Tuesday my MIL called and asked my husband for 15 thousand dollars, she said she needed it for vacation. After he told her no, she sent me a lengthy text message saying that I had no right to get involved in a mother\u2019s relationship with her son, I didn\u2019t respond. I asked my husband if his parents were having money troubles, and he said that everything was fine as far as he knows.\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-6\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/98b\/e01\/0dd2de5743b30a91d964cc8030.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image28018344\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/98b%5C/e01%5C/0dd2de5743b30a91d964cc8030.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"729\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\u00a9\u00a0freepik \/ Freepik\n<div>\n<div class='\"d4cd5e4d1c37eb7b6e0b' d6e6c99797533fcec215 data-test-id='\"article-image-6\"'>\n<div class='\"a6462aa5ffcd6c76e41f' b7455aa58c4067faa6bf title='\"Share' on facebook data-test-id='\"share-button-facebook\"'>\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>Well, today my\u00a0FIL and SIL (husband\u2019s younger sister) came over for lunch. My\u00a0FIL was helping\u00a0us choose a\u00a0bottle of\u00a0wine when\u00a0I asked him if\u00a0everything was okay at\u00a0home, he\u00a0looked at\u00a0me\u00a0confused and asked what\u00a0I was talking about. That\u2019s when my\u00a0husband told him about her calling\u00a0us for money.!\n</p><p>It\u00a0turns out that my\u00a0MIL has been secretly asking my\u00a0husband for money in\u00a0cash. My\u00a0FIL told\u00a0us that she was withdrawing cash from the bank last year and told him it\u00a0was to\u00a0help pay for our wedding but she lied, she never gave\u00a0us a\u00a0dime.\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-8\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/9e3\/01c\/02e5165c4fad7bc1d89be06572.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image28018345\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/9e3%5C/01c%5C/02e5165c4fad7bc1d89be06572.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"485\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<p>\u00a9\u00a0Karolina Kaboompics \/ Pexels\n\n\n\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>My\u00a0FIL left immediately and hours later my\u00a0MIL called crying saying that\u00a0I had a\u00a0big mouth and ruined her life. My\u00a0FIL wrote\u00a0us a\u00a0check to\u00a0pay\u00a0us back and is\u00a0temporarily separated from my\u00a0MIL until he\u00a0feels he\u00a0can trust her again. My\u00a0husband\u2019s maternal relatives are calling\u00a0us and saying that I\u2019m the bad guy.\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>People stood on\u00a0her side.\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<ul>\n<li>&ldquo;You\u2019re not the one who has been lying and leeching for money. Hope your FIL divorces her.&rdquo;\u00a0Unknown author \/ Reddit<br>\n&ldquo;You asked out of concern, and you brought what sounds like tens of thousands of dollars in spending to his attention that she had been hiding, for whatever reasons. If she needed the money for a good reason, she wouldn&rsquo;t have been lying about it.&rdquo;\u00a0Bubbly_Chicken_9358 \/ Reddit<br>\n&ldquo;You busted a gold-digging scammer, out of concern and love for your husband and his father. It\u2019s natural to feel guilty for upsetting someone, and for big life changes to happen to others. But sometimes it\u2019s necessary to upset someone and change circumstances.&rdquo;\u00a0HippieMama710 \/ Reddit\n\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-13\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/9dd\/2c8\/7318085f7ba99ccbc2de02babd.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image28018346\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/9dd%5C/2c8%5C/7318085f7ba99ccbc2de02babd.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"659\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\u00a9\u00a0MART PRODUCTION \/ Pexels\n<div>\n<div class='\"d4cd5e4d1c37eb7b6e0b' d6e6c99797533fcec215 data-test-id='\"article-image-13\"'>\n<div title='\"Share' on facebook data-test-id='\"share-button-facebook\"'>\n<ul>\n<li class='\"a6462aa5ffcd6c76e41f' b7455aa58c4067faa6bf title='\"Share' on facebook data-test-id='\"share-button-facebook\"'>&ldquo;The maternal relatives that are calling you a bad guy were probably the ones benefiting from the money.&rdquo; TheLastWord63 \/ Reddit\n</li><li class='\"a6462aa5ffcd6c76e41f' b7455aa58c4067faa6bf title='\"Share' on facebook data-test-id='\"share-button-facebook\"'>&ldquo;If anyone ruined your mother-in-law&rsquo;s life, it was herself.&rdquo; ZealandRedSquirrel \/ Reddit\n</li><li class='\"a6462aa5ffcd6c76e41f' b7455aa58c4067faa6bf title='\"Share' on facebook data-test-id='\"share-button-facebook\"'>&ldquo;You\u2019re not a bank, neither is your husband, MIL has misused the trust of her son and husband. Seems like she wants to have power over her son and uses the money method to know that.&rdquo; Grgivmy \/ Reddit\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"f3fd96d54b17c34dd783\"'>\n<p>As\u00a0the story unfolds, it\u00a0becomes clear that such decisions, while often painful, are necessary for the health and stability of\u00a0the marriage. Ultimately, the narrative underscores the importance of\u00a0communication, mutual understanding, and the need for\u00a0clear boundaries\u00a0in\u00a0maintaining both familial relationships and marital bonds.\n</p><p>Preview photo credit\u00a0Not_a_bankthrowaway \/ Reddit\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>She\u00a0explained\u00a0what happened. My (33f) and my husband Matteo (31m) have been married for 4 months, together for 3 years. When we were dating, his mom used to randomly call him up and ask for money, anywhere from 2-6 thousand dollars. He told me that she had been doing it for years, but he didn\u2019t care &hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":79964,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79963","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moral-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79963","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79963"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79963\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":79965,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79963\/revisions\/79965"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79964"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79963"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79963"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79963"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}</p></div></li></ul></div></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></li></ul></div></h2></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></article></div></div></section></div></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></div></h2></div>