{"id":80202,"date":"2024-09-11T08:58:02","date_gmt":"2024-09-11T01:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=80202"},"modified":"2024-09-11T08:58:02","modified_gmt":"2024-09-11T01:58:02","slug":"my-husband-and-my-in-laws-wanted-me-to-pay-for-them-my-response-shocked-everyone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-husband-and-my-in-laws-wanted-me-to-pay-for-them-my-response-shocked-everyone\/","title":{"rendered":"My Husband and My In-Laws Wanted Me to Pay for Them. My Response Shocked Everyone"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>Here is\u00a0how the story went: &ldquo;I\u00a0recently inherited a\u00a0good amount of\u00a0money from my\u00a0mom. I\u00a0keep the money in\u00a0a\u00a0separate account as\u00a0I still haven\u2019t decided what to\u00a0do\u00a0with it\u00a0and\u00a0I didn\u2019t want it\u00a0to\u00a0go\u00a0to\u00a0waste.\n</p><p>I\u00a0noticed my\u00a0husband constantly bringing up\u00a0the inheritance money and making countless suggestions as\u00a0to\u00a0how\u00a0I should spend\u00a0it. Another thing is\u00a0that he\u00a0expects me\u00a0to\u00a0pay for nearly everything the past couple of\u00a0weeks.\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-2\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/a3c\/923\/a3066f5ba880f410ba8f4d9d31.jpeg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image391734\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpeg%5C/a3c%5C/923%5C/a3066f5ba880f410ba8f4d9d31.jpeg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"728\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>Recently, my\u00a0husband and\u00a0I met up\u00a0with his family at\u00a0a\u00a0restaurant to\u00a0celebrate a\u00a0holiday. It\u00a0was going fine until\u00a0I found out that\u00a0I was expected to\u00a0pay for everyone at\u00a0the table. My\u00a0husband\u2019s mom joked about paying for dinner out of\u00a0my\u00a0\u00abinheritance pocket\u00bb which made me\u00a0livid but\u00a0I showed no\u00a0reaction. Just silently paid for my\u00a0own food\/drinks. Then got up\u00a0and made my\u00a0way out of\u00a0the restaurant. They were shouting after me\u00a0like a\u00a0crowd and my\u00a0husband tried to\u00a0get me\u00a0to\u00a0come back but\u00a0I drove home.\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-5\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/98b\/fcc\/67c77054428ca9a64250cdd04a.jpeg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image391735\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpeg%5C/98b%5C/fcc%5C/67c77054428ca9a64250cdd04a.jpeg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"728\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>He\u00a0got back at\u00a03\u00a0a.m yelling at\u00a0me\u00a0saying\u00a0I was pathetic to\u00a0get up\u00a0and walk out on\u00a0him and his family after they\u00a0<i>relied\u00a0on\u00a0me\u00a0to\u00a0pay for their food and thought\u00a0I was gracious enough to\u00a0do\u00a0it\u00a0BUT they were wrong. He\u00a0said\u00a0I humiliated him and his family and that what\u00a0I did was an\u00a0attempt to\u00a0get back at\u00a0them for not being able to\u00a0help mom when she was sick. Not true is\u00a0all I\u2019m gonna say.\n</i></p><p>He\u00a0is\u00a0mad and is\u00a0saying that\u00a0I caused a\u00a0huge rift between his family and me\u00a0when it\u00a0wouldn\u2019t have hurt me\u00a0to\u00a0pay for the celebratory dinner.&rdquo;\n\n</p><div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-7\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/002\/c58\/ec45305e05b8a150be40f7035a.jpeg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image391736\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpeg%5C/002%5C/c58%5C/ec45305e05b8a150be40f7035a.jpeg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"728\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div class='\"d4cd5e4d1c37eb7b6e0b' d6e6c99797533fcec215 data-test-id='\"article-image-7\"'>\n<div class='\"a6462aa5ffcd6c76e41f' b7455aa58c4067faa6bf title='\"Share' on facebook data-test-id='\"share-button-facebook\"'>\n<ul>\n<li>So\u00a0let me\u00a0get this straight. Your mother died after an\u00a0illness and the thing your in-laws take from this is\u00a0\u00abgreat, now she can pay for everything\u00bb.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0RichSignal7022\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>A\u00a0divorce attorney may be\u00a0a\u00a0wise investment since hubby showed his true colors. Instead of\u00a0suggesting they spend the money on\u00a0buying a\u00a0house or\u00a0rental property or\u00a0put away for retirement he\u00a0wants her to\u00a0blow the money away ever since she got\u00a0it. Good for her keeping it\u00a0separate talk to\u00a0a\u00a0financial advisor and maybe a\u00a0divorce or\u00a0probate attorney so\u00a0that the inheritance is\u00a0properly kept as\u00a0a\u00a0separate asset and not commingled into marital property.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Unknown author\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>Do\u00a0not pay for anything jointly owned with inheritance. Your husband &amp;\u00a0his family are showing their true colors. I\u00a0doubt they will stop thinking above it\u00a0how to\u00a0spend your money. Put it\u00a0in\u00a0trust and invest for your future, not theirs.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0No-Train8518\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>Their expectations are what caused the problem. For some reason, they\u2019re somehow feeling entitled to\u00a0YOUR inheritance. That is\u00a0weird, unless you have discussed it\u00a0with either hubby or\u00a0in-laws, which it\u00a0doesn\u2019t sound like you did. The family was wrong to\u00a0place blame on\u00a0anyone other than the people who felt entitled to\u00a0your inheritance. Maybe take a\u00a0little bit of\u00a0your money and spend a\u00a0weekend alone in\u00a0a\u00a0nice hotel near the beach, lake, mountains, wherever you feel comfortable and do\u00a0some soul-searching. I\u00a0personally would not want to\u00a0continue associating with people who feel entitled and then blame you for their own erroneous expectations.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0SageGreen98\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>Most likely, your husband\u2019s family expected you to\u00a0pay because he\u00a0led them to\u00a0that conclusion or\u00a0at\u00a0least didn\u2019t correct them. You handled it\u00a0perfectly.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0classicgirl1990\u00a0\/ Reddit\n\n<p>Relationships in\u00a0marriage\u00a0are not always simple. Sometimes the only way out is\u00a0divorce, and sometimes the situation is\u00a0resolved differently. Like with this\u00a0woman\u00a0who found someone else\u2019s tampon and suspected her husband of\u00a0cheating.\n</p><p>Preview photo credit\u00a0MirandaAddison13 \/ Reddit\n</p><p><a href="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/www.reddit.com%5C/r%5C/AmItheAsshole%5C/comments%5C/100ogg4%5C/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of%5C/%5C%22" target='\"_blank\"' rel='\"nofollow' noopener noreferrer>MirandaAddison13 \/ Reddit\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here is\u00a0how the story went: &ldquo;I\u00a0recently inherited a\u00a0good amount of\u00a0money from my\u00a0mom. I\u00a0keep the money in\u00a0a\u00a0separate account as\u00a0I still haven\u2019t decided what to\u00a0do\u00a0with it\u00a0and\u00a0I didn\u2019t want it\u00a0to\u00a0go\u00a0to\u00a0waste. I\u00a0noticed my\u00a0husband constantly bringing up\u00a0the inheritance money and making countless suggestions as\u00a0to\u00a0how\u00a0I should spend\u00a0it. Another thing is\u00a0that he\u00a0expects me\u00a0to\u00a0pay for nearly everything the past couple of\u00a0weeks. Recently, my\u00a0husband &hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":80204,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80202","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moral-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80202","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80202"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80202\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":80205,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80202\/revisions\/80205"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80204"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80202"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80202"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80202"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}</p></a></p></li></ul></div></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></div>