{"id":80311,"date":"2024-09-11T14:19:22","date_gmt":"2024-09-11T07:19:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=80311"},"modified":"2024-09-11T14:19:22","modified_gmt":"2024-09-11T07:19:22","slug":"my-husband-completely-lost-his-mind-and-told-me-to-wear-an-absolutely-outrageous-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-husband-completely-lost-his-mind-and-told-me-to-wear-an-absolutely-outrageous-thing\/","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Completely Lost His Mind and Told Me to Wear an Absolutely Outrageous Thing"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='\"da6593441928737fb4a6\"' data-test-id='\"article-content\"'>\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Miranda has known her husband for years, and she thought he\u00a0was a\u00a0transparent personality for her.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-2\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/6b2\/dde\/31e3255433ad615d5d2e6340a5.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image398449\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/6b2%5C/dde%5C/31e3255433ad615d5d2e6340a5.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"1092\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div class='\"e4d41328b3b5ab1c8df3' ea3c3ab3bb9deab3fd31>\n<p>&nbsp;\n</p><p>Miranda, aged\u00a033, has penned a\u00a0deeply emotional letter to\u00a0us, detailing a\u00a0distressing turn of\u00a0events in\u00a0her once-thriving\u00a0family\u00a0life. Her husband, Josh, crossed boundaries and began making unreasonable demands, leading to\u00a0a\u00a0significant upheaval.\n</p><p>In\u00a0her letter, Miranda reveals, \u201cMy\u00a0relationship\u00a0with my\u00a0husband spans back 5\u00a0years when we\u00a0were friends, and we\u00a0tied the knot just 10\u00a0months ago. I\u00a0have a\u00a0great rapport with his family, who adore\u00a0me, and I\u2019m close with his relatives and friends from school. Everything seemed perfect until recently. The issue arose when my\u00a0husband\u2019s behavior became increasingly uncomfortable, with red flags\u00a0I initially dismissed.\u201d\n</p><p>Describing the unfolding situation, Miranda shares, \u201cInitially, he\u00a0started questioning my\u00a0outings, the places I\u00a0frequented, and my\u00a0plans with friends every time\u00a0I left the house alone. I\u00a0initially brushed it\u00a0off as\u00a0protective behavior, but it\u00a0escalated when he\u00a0began checking my\u00a0phone, a\u00a0behavior he\u00a0never exhibited before, leaving me\u00a0deeply unsettled.\u201d\n\n\n\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>The woman noticed other red flags in\u00a0her husband\u2019s behavior.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-6\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/51b\/733\/49d2e45f0ba1c9048def51c7b8.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image398450\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/51b%5C/733%5C/49d2e45f0ba1c9048def51c7b8.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"1092\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>Miranda revealed, \u201cMy\u00a0husband insisted that\u00a0I merge my\u00a0bank account with his, citing his responsibility for our finances. This demand struck a\u00a0nerve, especially since he\u00a0had been comfortable with separate finances during our cohabitation. Our arguments about this became a\u00a0daily occurrence until\u00a0I reluctantly agreed to\u00a0his terms. Looking back, I\u00a0realize this was just the beginning of\u00a0more troubling behavior.\u201d\n</p><p>\u201cI\u2019ve always been transparent with my\u00a0husband about my\u00a0plans and social interactions, having nothing to\u00a0hide. However, his sudden need to\u00a0verify every detail by\u00a0contacting everyone\u00a0I spoke\u00a0to, from texts to\u00a0meals, felt invasive and suffocating. It\u00a0felt like\u00a0I was losing my\u00a0autonomy bit by\u00a0bit,\u201d Miranda lamented.\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Things grew even worse over time.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-9\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/2cc\/4e5\/45f0735dc0a0e3dae02cf1020e.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image398451\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/2cc%5C/4e5%5C/45f0735dc0a0e3dae02cf1020e.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"485\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div>\n\n\n<section class='\"d17df1a8ad4a418bd28a' be4f2b8f955c4fc8bea6 data-id='\"398451\"'>\n<div class='\"e98cf7c6464e2e984a41\"'>\n<div class='\"aed62af27ad9dd3e8c03' ed99307b75b012ec4c7a e2efe1fd378420e9f526>\n<div class='\"d2e9be9853b74c32d4d7\"' data-test-id='\"new-comment-editor\"'>\n<div class='\"d10f0e848414f3f0b260\"'>\n<form class='\"bc5d2f670964baf0d1df\"' data-test-id='\"comment-editor-form\"'>\n<div class='\"ce9be2020e1a2a183cb6\"' data-test-id='\"actions-block\"'>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>Miranda expressed, \u201cRecently, my\u00a0husband, getting ready for a\u00a0three-week work trip, insisted that\u00a0I wear a\u00a0tracker so\u00a0he\u00a0could monitor me\u00a0while he\u2019s away. I\u00a0was beyond shocked! I\u00a0feel like I\u2019m suffocating, with no\u00a0personal space left even for the simplest things.\u201d\n</p><p>\u201cI\u00a0tried addressing his behavior, but he\u2019s convinced I\u2019m cheating and needs more evidence. The man\u00a0I knew seems gone, replaced by\u00a0someone obsessed with an\u00a0irrational fear of\u00a0my\u00a0infidelity,\u201d Miranda lamented.\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Miranda is\u00a0balancing between decisions and doesn\u2019t know what to\u00a0do.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-13\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/63b\/fc3\/e6876e571c8d8e892dff509834.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image398452\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/63b%5C/fc3%5C/e6876e571c8d8e892dff509834.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"485\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div>\n\n\n<section class='\"d17df1a8ad4a418bd28a' be4f2b8f955c4fc8bea6 data-id='\"398452\"'>\n<div class='\"e98cf7c6464e2e984a41\"'>\n<div class='\"aed62af27ad9dd3e8c03' ed99307b75b012ec4c7a e2efe1fd378420e9f526>\n<div class='\"d2e9be9853b74c32d4d7\"' data-test-id='\"new-comment-editor\"'>\n<div class='\"d10f0e848414f3f0b260\"'>\n<form class='\"bc5d2f670964baf0d1df\"' data-test-id='\"comment-editor-form\"'>\n<div class='\"ce9be2020e1a2a183cb6\"' data-test-id='\"actions-block\"'>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>The woman expressed, \u201cI\u00a0reached out to\u00a0my\u00a0in-laws about my\u00a0husband\u2019s concerning behavior, but they sided with him, saying he\u00a0was just being cautious and caring. They believed he\u00a0was acting as\u00a0a\u00a0good husband should. So, I\u00a0packed my\u00a0things and left before he\u00a0returned. He\u00a0tried contacting\u00a0me, but\u00a0I blocked him everywhere.\u201d\n</p><p>\u201cNow I\u2019m filing for divorce, but I\u2019m torn with doubt. I\u00a0still love him, and our years together were wonderful. But living with someone so\u00a0fixated on\u00a0suspicions and irrational ideas, and without support from his family, is\u00a0unbearable. What should I\u00a0do?\u201d\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Contact a\u00a0lawyer.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-16\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/fec\/87e\/617b77530facd7bbb4b5b5145c.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image398453\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/fec%5C/87e%5C/617b77530facd7bbb4b5b5145c.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"485\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div class='\"e4d41328b3b5ab1c8df3' ea3c3ab3bb9deab3fd31>You\u2019ll\u00a0need\u00a0legal assistance for the divorce. Given your husband\u2019s nature, he\u00a0may try to\u00a0leave you with nothing, so\u00a0take care of\u00a0that in\u00a0advance. Also, if\u00a0he\u00a0starts harassing you, that\u2019s also a\u00a0reason to\u00a0go\u00a0to\u00a0the police and lawyers.\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Reach out for help.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-19\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/f1d\/ecd\/d258fd50fda820fb494a98bab9.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image398454\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/f1d%5C/ecd%5C/d258fd50fda820fb494a98bab9.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"521\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div class='\"e4d41328b3b5ab1c8df3' ea3c3ab3bb9deab3fd31>Talk\u00a0to\u00a0other family members or\u00a0friends. Find those who will support your decision. Emotional support is\u00a0important for you. Additionally, a\u00a0supportive loved one can also help with other matters, so\u00a0don\u2019t stay alone.\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Find a\u00a0psychologist.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-22\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/31c\/0ae\/38d2a55ac4bbb93f42d144f13f.jpg.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image398455\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/31c%5C/0ae%5C/38d2a55ac4bbb93f42d144f13f.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"485\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div class='\"e4d41328b3b5ab1c8df3' ea3c3ab3bb9deab3fd31>\n<p>&nbsp;\n</p><p>Divorce is\u00a0always challenging, and after\u00a0it, you may need\u00a0psychological\u00a0support. In\u00a0your case, it\u2019s especially necessary, as\u00a0the experience of\u00a0such traumatic relationships leaves its mark. Therapy will help you regain your former self.\n</p><p>Divorce is\u00a0always painful, especially when it\u00a0involves a\u00a0partner\u2019s betrayal. Here is\u00a0the\u00a0story of\u00a0a\u00a0woman who sought revenge on\u00a0her husband and his young lover.\n\n\n\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>Miranda has known her husband for years, and she thought he\u00a0was a\u00a0transparent personality for her. &nbsp; Miranda, aged\u00a033, has penned a\u00a0deeply emotional letter to\u00a0us, detailing a\u00a0distressing turn of\u00a0events in\u00a0her once-thriving\u00a0family\u00a0life. Her husband, Josh, crossed boundaries and began making unreasonable demands, leading to\u00a0a\u00a0significant upheaval. In\u00a0her letter, Miranda reveals, \u201cMy\u00a0relationship\u00a0with my\u00a0husband spans back 5\u00a0years when we\u00a0were friends, &hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":80312,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80311","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moral-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80311","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80311"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80311\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":80313,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80311\/revisions\/80313"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80311"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80311"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80311"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}</p></div></div></picture></div></div></h2></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></h2></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></h2></div></div></div></form></div></div></div></div></section></div></div></div></picture></div></div></h2></div></div></div></form></div></div></div></div></section></div></div></div></picture></div></div></h2></div></div></div></div></picture></div></div></h2></div></div></div></picture></div></div></h2></div></div>