{"id":81227,"date":"2024-09-17T11:47:30","date_gmt":"2024-09-17T04:47:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=81227"},"modified":"2024-09-17T11:47:30","modified_gmt":"2024-09-17T04:47:30","slug":"im-divorcing-my-wife-because-of-what-she-did-to-my-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/im-divorcing-my-wife-because-of-what-she-did-to-my-baby\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m Divorcing My Wife Because of What She Did to My Baby"},"content":{"rendered":"
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“I (M, 38) have been with my wife, Natalie (F, 37), for 8 years (married for 4 years). Natalie has a daughter from a previous relationship, Kaya (F, 12). Kaya\u2019s dad left when she was a newborn. We have no idea where he is.\n

I love her as if she were mine. She calls me Dad and has a great relationship with me. I told Natalie from the very beginning that I would like to have biological children, and she said she is open to having more kids. After we got married, we bought a nice place and started trying for a baby.”\n\n

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\u00a0\u00a9 Medine Dilek Kizmaz \/ Pexels\n\n\n\n\n
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He\u00a0added:\n

“After a year of unsuccessful attempts, we underwent testing which revealed that everything was normal for both of us. However, as conception has not occurred naturally, we may now explore the option of IVF to achieve pregnancy. My wife said that the treatment would be too costly and hard on her body. I was secretly devastated, but I eventually came to terms with the fact that I’ll never have any biological kids.\n

This was until a few days ago, when I found out from Natalie\u2019s sister that Natalie lied to me! She and her sister got into a fight in our house, and her sister screamed, ‘At least, I don’t take birth control pills behind my husband’s back and claim that I’m infertile. Oh, by the way, does he even know that you’ve had an abortion?’ I was floored. My wife kicked her sister out and started crying, saying she really didn\u2019t want another kid and didn’t want to lose me.”\n\n

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\u00a0\u00a9 Liza Summer \/ Pexels\n\n\n\n\n
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He\u00a0went on saying:\n

“I can\u2019t believe she lied to me instead of talking to me! I just left! I have been staying at my parents’ house since then. Natalie begs me to come back, and she says we can try for a baby. Kaya even messaged me to come back!\n

My parents think I should just move on and give her another chance. She made a mistake, and she apologized. But now I can never ever trust her again and want a divorce.\n

In my defense, I do believe women have to control their bodies, and of course, I\u2019m pro-choice. But this is a different case! She lied in my face. I could now have my baby in my arms. I had no idea she is against having more babies until a few days ago. Abortion happened 1.5 year after our wedding. And yes, it was MY BABY!”\n\n

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\u00a9\u00a0Karolina Grabowska \/ Pexels\n
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Other Redditors joined the conversation to defend him and back his choice, leaving comments such as:\n\n
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  • She has been lying to you from the beginning of your relationship, your relationship is built on lies! Personally, I prefer couples to work on their relationship as long as it’s not toxic and there’s no significant breach of trust or violence. But this is a significant breach of trust, and she’s only claiming to want to try for a baby because she got exposed, there’s nothing genuine about her change of heart. It’s just another\u00a0manipulation\u00a0tactic.
    \nYou’re well within your rights to consider divorce. I don’t even believe she’s genuinely sorry, just sorry for herself being exposed by her sister.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Apart_Foundation1702 \/ Reddit\n
  • This is not a mistake or a small lie. This is complete and total deception on her part. She has been secretly taking birth control pills and also had an abortion behind your back, all the while knowing that you have been hurting thinking that a baby was not possible. Also keep in mind that if her sister had not told you, then she would have continued this lie until you gave up! She took birth control pills every day for 4 years to keep from getting pregnant, and then when she did get pregnant, she ended it without ever talking to you about it. I would never trust her again, and with no trust you have no marriage. I would not return to the house. Find an attorney and file for divorce. Find someone who will not lie to you for your entire marriage. \u00a9 countryboy1101 \/ Reddit\n\n\n
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