{"id":81627,"date":"2024-09-20T13:33:01","date_gmt":"2024-09-20T06:33:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=81627"},"modified":"2024-09-20T13:33:01","modified_gmt":"2024-09-20T06:33:01","slug":"my-husbands-ex-says-its-my-duty-to-teach-her-kids-im-not-a-free-tutor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-husbands-ex-says-its-my-duty-to-teach-her-kids-im-not-a-free-tutor\/","title":{"rendered":"My Husband\u2019s Ex Says It\u2019s My Duty to Teach Her Kids \u2014 I\u2019m Not a Free Tutor"},"content":{"rendered":"

I teach French at a university. I have two stepchildren, 12 and 14. Their mother expects me to teach them at home after my working hours. I said, “I’m not a free tutor-I do this for a living!”\n

She replied, “You’re a stepmom; you have responsibilities. You should be ashamed to call them your stepkids.” My husband smirked.\n

The next day, I entered my room and was shocked to find a note that read, “You’re not a free teacher, and this is not a free house.” I confronted my husband, and he said that if I expect to be paid to teach his kids, then he expects me to pay rent for living under his roof. I refused and said, “You own the house; we don’t rent it.” He just smirked.\n

A month later, I found out that my husband had started to secretly use my savings to pay for private tutors for his children. When I confronted him, he admitted it and said, “If you won’t help them, someone has to.” Feeling betrayed and manipulated, I decided to leave and stay with a friend.\n

Now, I’m questioning if I made the right decision or if I overreacted and should have taught the kids from the beginning.\n

Source: Brightside\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I teach French at a university. I have two stepchildren, 12 and 14. Their mother expects me to teach them at home after my working hours. I said, “I’m not a free tutor-I do this for a living!” She replied, “You’re a stepmom; you have responsibilities. You should be ashamed to call them your stepkids.” …\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":81628,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[657],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81627","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81627","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81627"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81627\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":81629,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81627\/revisions\/81629"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81628"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81627"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81627"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81627"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}