{"id":81878,"date":"2024-09-22T11:38:50","date_gmt":"2024-09-22T04:38:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=81878"},"modified":"2024-09-22T11:38:50","modified_gmt":"2024-09-22T04:38:50","slug":"my-parents-always-choose-my-sister-over-me-now-they-missed-my-wedding-and-i-cant-take-it-anymore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-parents-always-choose-my-sister-over-me-now-they-missed-my-wedding-and-i-cant-take-it-anymore\/","title":{"rendered":"My Parents Always Choose My Sister Over Me; Now They Missed My Wedding and I Can\u2019t Take It Anymore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Birthdays, graduations, even the smallest of victories\u2014his parents always found a way to highlight his sister instead. This is a story of how years of feeling overlooked have culminated in a heartbreak one man can no longer ignore.\n

He told his story.\n

I have a sister that\u2019s 6 years older than me. My parents for years canceled on me last minute because of my sister.\n

I have a basketball game. Ops, sorry, sister doesn\u2019t feel like going out. I am graduating ops, sorry, sister had a bad day at work. They have missed both major and smaller events in my life because of her meltdowns.\n

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I met the love of my life. We decided to tie the knot. From the beginning, I told my parents how I was worried my sister would ruin another special moment in my life. My mom told me over and over again it would not happen.\n
The day of my wedding. I received a voicemail from my mom saying they couldn\u2019t come because my sister’s dog was sick, and she was upset. I was hurt, my best man however is a jokester. He took my phone, then went to my fianc\u00e9 and asked if he could post a video of our wedding as a gift. On social media. She loved his idea.\n
I had no idea about it until I came home. Our honeymoon was at a lakeside cabin. No cell service.\n
The post caption was \u201cMy best friend. He is an amazing person, even if his parents NEVER showed up for him.\u201d The video was still pictures of us next to her parents, me on the dance floor, cutting the cake. Where you would normally see both parents in wedding pictures. The sound behind the video was my mom\u2019s voicemail explaining how they couldn\u2019t come because my sister\u2019s dog was sick.\n
I came home a week later to hundreds of messages. Family members from both sides insisting I take it down. I was told my sister hadn\u2019t stopped crying. My mom is refusing to leave the house.\n
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For illustrative purposes only\n
Maybe the jerk here. I didn\u2019t take it down when I got my messages. I didn\u2019t call my family back right away. I waited until my vacation time was over at work and enjoyed my time with my wife. In our new home. Before I contacted anyone.\n
My dad told me to take down the video. It was \u201cjust a bad night for them.\u201d That they will make it up to me and my wife for not coming. My reply was exactly, \u201cHow do you plan to \u2019make up\u2019 my wedding? It\u2019s a once-in-a-lifetime thing. You choose to ignore my feelings on the whole matter.\u201d\n
Then he just repeated he would make it up to me. I told him I would take down the video only when he made up missing my wedding. Flustered, we both hung up the phone before we both said things we shouldn\u2019t have.\n
Source: brightside\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Birthdays, graduations, even the smallest of victories\u2014his parents always found a way to highlight his sister instead. This is a story of how years of feeling overlooked have culminated in a heartbreak one man can no longer ignore. He told his story. I have a sister that\u2019s 6 years older than me. My parents for …\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":81879,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[657],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81878"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":81880,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878\/revisions\/81880"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}

For illustrative purposes only\n
I met the love of my life. We decided to tie the knot. From the beginning, I told my parents how I was worried my sister would ruin another special moment in my life. My mom told me over and over again it would not happen.\n
The day of my wedding. I received a voicemail from my mom saying they couldn\u2019t come because my sister’s dog was sick, and she was upset. I was hurt, my best man however is a jokester. He took my phone, then went to my fianc\u00e9 and asked if he could post a video of our wedding as a gift. On social media. She loved his idea.\n
I had no idea about it until I came home. Our honeymoon was at a lakeside cabin. No cell service.\n
The post caption was \u201cMy best friend. He is an amazing person, even if his parents NEVER showed up for him.\u201d The video was still pictures of us next to her parents, me on the dance floor, cutting the cake. Where you would normally see both parents in wedding pictures. The sound behind the video was my mom\u2019s voicemail explaining how they couldn\u2019t come because my sister\u2019s dog was sick.\n
I came home a week later to hundreds of messages. Family members from both sides insisting I take it down. I was told my sister hadn\u2019t stopped crying. My mom is refusing to leave the house.\n
$\"\"$
For illustrative purposes only\n
Maybe the jerk here. I didn\u2019t take it down when I got my messages. I didn\u2019t call my family back right away. I waited until my vacation time was over at work and enjoyed my time with my wife. In our new home. Before I contacted anyone.\n
My dad told me to take down the video. It was \u201cjust a bad night for them.\u201d That they will make it up to me and my wife for not coming. My reply was exactly, \u201cHow do you plan to \u2019make up\u2019 my wedding? It\u2019s a once-in-a-lifetime thing. You choose to ignore my feelings on the whole matter.\u201d\n
Then he just repeated he would make it up to me. I told him I would take down the video only when he made up missing my wedding. Flustered, we both hung up the phone before we both said things we shouldn\u2019t have.\n
Source: brightside\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Birthdays, graduations, even the smallest of victories\u2014his parents always found a way to highlight his sister instead. This is a story of how years of feeling overlooked have culminated in a heartbreak one man can no longer ignore. He told his story. I have a sister that\u2019s 6 years older than me. My parents for …\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":81879,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[657],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81878"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":81880,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878\/revisions\/81880"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81879"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}