I believe your husband was selfish making this decision on his own when you both agreed to your mom’s name…he took advantage of your situation to change the outcome…you have a few choices you can make …you can get the names switched on the birth certificate to the one you wanted ..he signed the papers without your signature so do the same..another choice is to reverse the names like my brother did..his name is Edward James but he didn’t like his first name so he uses his middle….so instead of saying Isabella call her your chosen name..but names can be changed at anytime during your life….when she enters school you just let them know the names are switched…for medical she will have to use her given name….if you do not like her name isabella you can always call her Bella…the last choice is confront your hubby saying till he changes the name you are going to be stubborn and not do anything for him ..personally if you don’t like Isabella then continue with the name you chose and tell your hubby that you absolutely refuse to say that name….I believe you are heartbroken because of this and your hubby doesn’t seem to care about your feelings and hopefully it doesn’t turn into resentment and ruin your marriage..but this is unforgiveable in my eyes…and if he doesnt care about the marriage being over then he wont give in…but in alot of marriages the female is usually the one to concede as the male is more controlling.\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Dear reader, thank you for trusting us in such a vulnerable situation. We hope our readers can offer you helpful advice. However, we also want to provide a couple of tips from our editorial team. We understand the complexity of your family situation and want to assist in any way we can.\n\n

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Try talking to your husband to understand the real reason behind his actions. Maybe he made his choice out of fear of losing a loved one, wanting to honor the memory of his mother, just like you did. It\u2019s tough to accept that he made a decision without talking to you, but having an honest conversation will not only lead to forgiveness but also understanding.\n\n\n
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