{"id":83298,"date":"2024-10-03T13:53:36","date_gmt":"2024-10-03T06:53:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=83298"},"modified":"2024-10-03T13:53:36","modified_gmt":"2024-10-03T06:53:36","slug":"i-set-three-conditions-to-my-sons-fiancee-for-their-wedding-her-reaction-confused-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/i-set-three-conditions-to-my-sons-fiancee-for-their-wedding-her-reaction-confused-me\/","title":{"rendered":"I Set Three Conditions to My Son\u2019s Fiancee for Their Wedding, Her Reaction Confused Me"},"content":{"rendered":"

I welcomed my son’s fianc\u00e9e, Ella, into our family because he loves her. But she’s crass, disrespectful, and nowhere near our standards. Her family? Even worse – totally embarrassing.\n

The wedding is a grand affair, and I want everyone to actually enjoy it. So, I sent Ella a quick email with three basic requests.\n

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The very next day, she stormed in and screamed, “If you dare show up, there will be no wedding!” Can you believe that? All I did was share some sensible rules to keep things under control. Here’s what I said:\n

No Uncle Jim or Cousin Matt: Their history of inappropriate behavior makes them a threat to everyone’s enjoyment and safety. They simply can’t be trusted at an event like this.\n

Tight Guest List for Her Side: Only immediate family allowed. No random friends or distant relatives. We can’t have strangers turning the wedding into a circus.\n

Separate Seating: To prevent clashes, Ella’s family will sit far away from our family, especially at the reception. It’s for the best-less drama, fewer headaches.\n

Honestly, I was just being a protective mother, trying to make sure my son’s wedding didn’t become a laughingstock. Was I really out of line for setting these boundaries?\n

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I welcomed my son’s fianc\u00e9e, Ella, into our family because he loves her. But she’s crass, disrespectful, and nowhere near our standards. Her family? Even worse – totally embarrassing. The wedding is a grand affair, and I want everyone to actually enjoy it. So, I sent Ella a quick email with three basic requests. The …\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":83299,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[657],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83298","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83298","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=83298"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83298\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":83301,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83298\/revisions\/83301"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=83298"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=83298"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=83298"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}