{"id":84059,"date":"2024-10-11T13:58:36","date_gmt":"2024-10-11T06:58:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=84059"},"modified":"2024-10-11T13:58:36","modified_gmt":"2024-10-11T06:58:36","slug":"my-cruel-stepmother-wants-to-take-my-baby-and-her-reason-left-me-furious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-cruel-stepmother-wants-to-take-my-baby-and-her-reason-left-me-furious\/","title":{"rendered":"My Cruel Stepmother Wants to Take My Baby, and Her Reason Left Me Furious"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>She had a really complicated relationship with her dad and stepmother.\n<figure style='\"width:' class='\"wp-caption' aligncenter><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/3b0%5C/b0c%5C/24369154a9b1163c38b44410d0.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"486\"' title='\"\"'><figcaption class='\"wp-caption-text\"'>For illustrative purposes only\n<p>&ldquo;I\u2019m F29 (English), and I live in Italy with my fianc\u00e9 M37 Marco (Italian) &amp; our daughter 5 months old, Willow. I moved to Italy after graduating from medical school, where I met Marco, and now I\u2019m a resident in one of the hospitals.\n</p><p>My father left my mum and me and has been very inconsistent. He married Tammy when I was young and she has never liked me &amp; she was also never able to have kids.\n</p><p>So when I gave birth my mum&rsquo;s side of the family came over to visit and meet Willow and look after both of us. Nothing from my dad or Tammy. So two weeks ago they turned up unannounced claiming to be \u2018in the area on holiday\u2019 and wanted to meet Willow.&rdquo;\n</p><p>&nbsp;\n<figure style='\"width:' class='\"wp-caption' aligncenter><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/580%5C/1ef%5C/912284549ea02088fa0c3a6e9a.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"1095\"' title='\"\"'><figcaption class='\"wp-caption-text\"'>For illustrative purposes only\n<p>&ldquo;She was getting a bit fussy and she combination fed but as I was home I grabbed a cover and let her latch onto me. Tammy says the breastfeeding will have to stop soon. I\u2019m confused and ask her why and she said it couldn\u2019t be kept up when Willow is with them. Now I\u2019m even more confused and I ask what is she on about. She shows me photos of a baby room and says that we should split custody of Willow and not to worry and she has everything set up already.\n</p><p>I just stare at her but she carries on. Claiming that the age gap between me and Marco is unhealthy for a child to grow up with, saying it was obvious I needed help and she was happy to, and mostly that I was more bothered about working than staying home with my baby so I should just let her have Willow. But obviously, she wasn\u2019t able to breastfeed so we would have to stop that now.&rdquo;\n</p><p>&nbsp;\n<figure style='\"width:' class='\"wp-caption' aligncenter><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-brightside.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/jpg%5C/f16%5C/195%5C/99bdb35a928e2567430004ab10.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"485\"' title='\"\"'><figcaption class='\"wp-caption-text\"'>For illustrative purposes only\n<p>&ldquo;I told her she couldn\u2019t be serious to think that I was giving her my baby. She tells me to calm down, she\u2019s not asking for full custody but she could provide a much calmer and stabler home and that I could always visit. She said it\u2019s what she deserves.\n</p><p>Marco pushed everyone out and made sure Willow and I were alright. Since then I\u2019ve been really weirded out and been getting texts from my father saying I need to let Tammy prove herself as a good caregiver and Tammy has been sending loads of photos of the nursery she has made.\n</p><p>Just to add so people don\u2019t get confused. I\u2019m in Italy but Tammy isn\u2019t. They had flown over here. My dad isn\u2019t actually on my birth certificate so I think that limits his \u2018grandparent&rsquo;s rights\u2019 claim, my mum is our nominated guardian for Willow. If anything happens to us it\u2019s written in a will &amp; Willow goes to the daycare in the hospital we both work at.&rdquo;\n</p><p>Source: brightside\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>She had a really complicated relationship with her dad and stepmother. &ldquo;I\u2019m F29 (English), and I live in Italy with my fianc\u00e9 M37 Marco (Italian) &amp; our daughter 5 months old, Willow. I moved to Italy after graduating from medical school, where I met Marco, and now I\u2019m a resident in one of the hospitals. &hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":29,"featured_media":84060,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[657],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84059","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/29"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84059"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84059\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":84061,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84059\/revisions\/84061"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}</p></figcaption></figure></p></figcaption></figure></p></figcaption></figure></h1>