{"id":86728,"date":"2024-10-26T09:45:37","date_gmt":"2024-10-26T02:45:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=86728"},"modified":"2024-10-26T09:45:37","modified_gmt":"2024-10-26T02:45:37","slug":"my-husband-got-this-picture-from-me-and-he-immediately-wanted-a-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/my-husband-got-this-picture-from-me-and-he-immediately-wanted-a-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"My husband got this picture from me and he immediately wanted a divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"

One peaceful day out in the woods, I practiced target shooting. I set up behind a fallen log, got comfortable, and snapped a picture to share with my husband. For me, it was just another day enjoying the outdoors, with the sun filtering through the trees and the rifle in my hands. I sent it, and expected him to be impressed by my aim and the peaceful setting.\n

But I got a message that threw me off instead.\n

\"\"\n

\u201cWhose hat is that?\u201d he asked.\n

I stared at the picture again and confused. \u201cIt\u2019s mine,\u201d I replied, thinking of the white cowboy hat lying next to me in the picture.\n

\u201cNo, it\u2019s not,\u201d he shot back. \u201cYou\u2019ve never had a hat like that. That\u2019s his hat.\u201d\n

His words hit me like a punch because I realized exactly what he meant.\n

In fact, that hat wasn\u2019t just any hat\u2014it was the same style of hat my ex-boyfriend used to wear all the time.\n

And worse, it looked almost identical to one he had once given me, which I thought I\u2019d gotten rid of long ago.\n

I tried to explain that I had just grabbed a random hat before heading out, but my husband didn\u2019t accept. According to him, it wasn\u2019t just a coincidence\u2014it was a sign that I was still holding on to something from the past. The fact that I had taken this picture while still wearing that hat made him feel like the past was creeping back into the present.\n

While I kept insisting it was unintentional, that I hadn\u2019t even thought about where the hat came from, the damage was done. The image of me lying there, next to that hat, was all he needed to convince himself that something wasn\u2019t right.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

One peaceful day out in the woods, I practiced target shooting. I set up behind a fallen log, got comfortable, and snapped a picture to share with my husband. For me, it was just another day enjoying the outdoors, with the sun filtering through the trees and the rifle in my hands. I sent it, …\n","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":86729,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[670],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-86728","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86728","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/30"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=86728"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86728\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":86731,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86728\/revisions\/86731"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/86729"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=86728"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=86728"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=86728"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}