{"id":86815,"date":"2024-10-26T14:38:50","date_gmt":"2024-10-26T07:38:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=86815"},"modified":"2024-10-26T14:42:15","modified_gmt":"2024-10-26T07:42:15","slug":"i-was-shocked-my-husband-let-his-friend-call-me-troll-and-ugly-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/i-was-shocked-my-husband-let-his-friend-call-me-troll-and-ugly-2\/","title":{"rendered":"I Was Shocked My Husband Let His Friend Call Me \u201cTroll\u201d and \u201cUgly\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>A\u00a0woman began her story with admitting her insecurities.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-2\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/2fc\/5ca\/ee646a5beb95646812fd30005b.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image383073\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/2fc%5C/5ca%5C/ee646a5beb95646812fd30005b.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"904\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div class='\"e4d41328b3b5ab1c8df3' ea3c3ab3bb9deab3fd31>\n<p>A\u00a0woman, 28, made a\u00a0heart-wrenching post in\u00a0one of\u00a0the Reddit\u00a0communities. She went under the nickname \u201cuglywoman\u201d, which already gave people a\u00a0hint that she\u2019s very much concerned about her looks. She began her story, saying that she considers herself an\u00a0unattractive woman. She admitted that she\u2019s always been this way, and she has already accustomed herself to\u00a0this belief about her appearance. She confessed that she\u2019s had a\u00a0tough life because of\u00a0her insecurities, and it\u00a0has never been easy for her to\u00a0live a\u00a0normal and full life.\n</p><p>The woman met her husband four years ago. She is\u00a0obviously in\u00a0love with this man, as\u00a0she speaks of\u00a0him as\u00a0\u201cthe best thing that\u2019s ever happened to\u00a0me.\u201d She wrote that her husband has always and frequently told her she\u2019s beautiful, and somehow sounded honest, without sounding like the woman\u2019s own mom. She didn\u2019t feel like her husband was paying her compliments, just like someone without another option to\u00a0answer.\n\n\n\n\n</p><div class='\"a7a009a2bc69238836f2' dbd3833dbc73d3acd29b>\n<aside class='\"ca17a89d1f9c34c777a4\"' data-test-id='\"advert-d-inread-r-1\"' data-adunit-type='\"d-inread-r-1\"' data-adunit-started='\"true\"' data-state='\"rendered\"'>\n<div id='\"advert_40\"' class='\"ba77251e8836b46a7232\"' data-google-query-id='\"CKOeraXFq4kDFTfJFgUdCpQKeg\"'>\n<div id='\"google_ads_iframe_\/21702212373\/d-inread-r-1_2__container__\"'>\n<div class='\"ob-smartfeed-wrapper' feedidx-10>\n<div id='\"outbrain_widget_10\"' class='\"OUTBRAIN\"' data-src='\"https:\/\/nowiveseeneverything.club\/articles\/i-was-shocked-my-husband-let-his-friend-call-me-troll-and-ugly-10491\/\"' data-widget-id='\"MB_1\"' data-ob-mark='\"true\"' data-browser='\"chrome\"' data-os='\"win32\"' data-dynload='\"\"' data-idx='\"10\"'>\n<div class='\"ob-widget' ob-feed-layout mb_1>\n<div class='\"ob-widget-footer\"'>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>The woman\u2019s life turned upside down on\u00a0an\u00a0ordinary Saturday evening.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-6\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/e52\/a3b\/9277705b3db7d7e16b3e22397b.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image383074\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/e52%5C/a3b%5C/9277705b3db7d7e16b3e22397b.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"594\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>The woman continues her story, saying that one day, she\u00a0experienced\u00a0not the best feelings of\u00a0all. There was an\u00a0ordinary Saturday, and her husband decided to\u00a0invite a\u00a0group of\u00a0friends over to\u00a0their home. They used to\u00a0meet several times a\u00a0month to\u00a0hang out, catch up\u00a0and play games. Her husband has known most of\u00a0these guys since high school.\n</p><p>The woman wrote that at\u00a0the time of\u00a0their meeting she was upstairs in\u00a0the kitchen preparing snacks. She was able to\u00a0hear them in\u00a0the basement and began to\u00a0eavesdrop, which she admitted was rude, but it\u00a0wasn\u2019t really intentional. She then realized they were talking about her. What is\u00a0worse, a\u00a0couple of\u00a0guys were teasing her husband about her, specifically about her looks. The woman writes, without even trying to\u00a0hide her pain, \u201cI\u00a0could tell it\u00a0was supposed to\u00a0be\u00a0funny. It\u00a0was not.\u201d\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>Her husband\u2019s reaction was totally not what she had expected.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-9\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/1e6\/fbd\/2cc90050379669b21dfc46b3ab.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image383075\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/1e6%5C/fbd%5C/2cc90050379669b21dfc46b3ab.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"837\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div>\n\n\n<section class='\"d17df1a8ad4a418bd28a' be4f2b8f955c4fc8bea6 data-id='\"383075\"'>\n<div class='\"e98cf7c6464e2e984a41\"'>\n<div class='\"aed62af27ad9dd3e8c03' ed99307b75b012ec4c7a e2efe1fd378420e9f526>\n<div class='\"d2e9be9853b74c32d4d7\"' data-test-id='\"new-comment-editor\"'>\n<div class='\"d10f0e848414f3f0b260\"'>\n<form class='\"bc5d2f670964baf0d1df\"' data-test-id='\"comment-editor-form\"'>\n<div class='\"ce9be2020e1a2a183cb6\"' data-test-id='\"actions-block\"'>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>The woman goes on\u00a0with her story, revealing that there was a\u00a0point\u00a0where one of\u00a0her husband\u2019s friends referred to\u00a0her as\u00a0a\u00a0\u201ctroll\u201d and her husband blew\u00a0up. He\u00a0started shouting: \u201cListen,\u00a0I\u00a0know that my\u00a0wife is\u00a0ugly,\u00a0but shut\u00a0up. She makes me\u00a0happy. Does your bimbo of\u00a0the week do\u00a0that, Jim? Dave, how long has it\u00a0been since we\u2019ve hung out, and you haven\u2019t complained about your wife?\u201d\n</p><p>The man went on\u00a0for a\u00a0while, \u201cdefending\u201d his wife. But all she could hear was \u201cI\u00a0know she\u2019s ugly, I\u00a0know she\u2019s ugly, I\u00a0know she\u2019s ugly\u201d again and again in\u00a0her head. It\u00a0just broke her. The woman writes, \u201cI\u2019ve always known I\u2019m unattractive, but\u00a0<i>HE\u00a0isn\u2019t supposed, too! He\u00a0tells me\u00a0I\u2019m beautiful so\u00a0sincerely, and consistently, I\u2019d started to\u00a0actually believe he\u00a0thought that.\u201d\n</i></p><p>\u201cI\u00a0started to\u00a0cry and ran into a\u00a0shower so\u00a0no\u00a0one could hear\u00a0me. When I\u00a0came out and hour later everyone had gone home, far earlier than normal. I\u00a0went to\u00a0bed and then haven\u2019t spoken to\u00a0him all day today, but\u00a0I think I\u2019ve been able to\u00a0avoid letting him know I\u2019m upset, or\u00a0avoiding him,\u201d she shared.\n\n</p><div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<h2>People in\u00a0comments supported the woman, but some had another point of\u00a0view.\n\n<div class='\"fe475c3f28885ceec1f1\"' tabindex='\"-1\"'>\n<div data-test-id='\"article-image-13\"'><picture class='\"b10992b7e7307cb7c32f\"'><source srcset='\"https:\/\/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li\/resize\/728x\/webp\/3c9\/6cc\/cf0e8b53d18328ddbf48c8557a.png.webp' type='\"image\/webp\"'></source><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' id='\"image383076\"' class='\"e33ce0f82f0e7404cc63\"' title='\"\"' src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/wl-nowiveseeneverything.cf.tsp.li%5C/resize%5C/728x%5C/png%5C/3c9%5C/6cc%5C/cf0e8b53d18328ddbf48c8557a.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"728\"' height='\"530\"'>\n<div class='\"bf0a2e8fd2dd44f1e1c9\"'>\n<div>\n<div>\n\n\n<section class='\"d17df1a8ad4a418bd28a' be4f2b8f955c4fc8bea6 data-id='\"383076\"'>\n<div class='\"e98cf7c6464e2e984a41\"'>\n<div class='\"aed62af27ad9dd3e8c03' ed99307b75b012ec4c7a e2efe1fd378420e9f526>\n<div class='\"d2e9be9853b74c32d4d7\"' data-test-id='\"new-comment-editor\"'>\n<div class='\"d10f0e848414f3f0b260\"'>\n<form class='\"bc5d2f670964baf0d1df\"' data-test-id='\"comment-editor-form\"'>\n<div class='\"ce9be2020e1a2a183cb6\"' data-test-id='\"actions-block\"'>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div class='\"e599d42b92530cddc130' d678c9ac111a6390ff29>\n<p>Even though many people showed support and understanding for women, there were also some who had a\u00a0different and valid opinion.\n\n</p><div class='\"f3fd96d54b17c34dd783\"'>\n<ul>\n<li>Seriously. I\u00a0know hearing this must have hurt, but a\u00a0lot of\u00a0women would kill for a\u00a0guy that stood up\u00a0for them like this. It\u00a0actually sounds like your husband puts the correct amount of\u00a0emphasis on\u00a0looks, and you are focusing too much on\u00a0them. You\u2019ve got a\u00a0keeper on\u00a0your hands.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Phantoom\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>Just because your husband may objectively perceive that you are \u201cugly\u201d that does not mean he\u00a0is\u00a0not attracted to\u00a0you. I\u00a0think that what your husband really meant was:\u00a0\u201cI\u00a0know that [my\u00a0wife] is\u00a0ugly according to\u00a0social convention, but to\u00a0me, she is\u00a0a\u00a0beautiful person, a\u00a0loving and sexy woman, and\u00a0I find her as\u00a0attractive as\u00a0someone with slightly more even features, or\u00a0longer legs, or\u00a0whatever\u201d. He\u00a0didn\u2019t say all that because he\u00a0lost his cool, and because it\u2019s hard to\u00a0articulate\u00a0it. But he\u00a0loves you. That\u2019s what you need to\u00a0focus\u00a0on.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0istara\u00a0\/ Reddit\n</li><li>Your husband shouldn\u2019t have said what he\u00a0said, but it\u00a0sounds to\u00a0me\u00a0like he\u00a0didn\u2019t really mean it\u00a0that way. It\u00a0sounds like he\u00a0doesn\u2019t think you are ugly, he\u00a0just knows that, objectively, you are not conventionally good-looking. That does not mean you aren\u2019t attractive, sexy, and beautiful to\u00a0him. He\u2019s not a\u00a0liar. He\u2019s a\u00a0loving husband that truly thinks you are beautiful. Tell him you heard him and talk to\u00a0him about\u00a0it. He\u2019ll probably reiterate everything that has been said here.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0TheKenluckian\u00a0\/ Reddit\n\n<p>Marriage\u00a0and relationships can be\u00a0complicated, and it\u2019s important for couples to\u00a0have\u00a0discussions\u00a0before tying the knot. Deciding on\u00a0their own way of\u00a0navigating\u00a0marriage\u00a0through open communication is\u00a0key to\u00a0a\u00a0successful relationship.\n</p><p>Preview photo credit\u00a0freepik \/ Freepik\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>A\u00a0woman began her story with admitting her insecurities. A\u00a0woman, 28, made a\u00a0heart-wrenching post in\u00a0one of\u00a0the Reddit\u00a0communities. She went under the nickname \u201cuglywoman\u201d, which already gave people a\u00a0hint that she\u2019s very much concerned about her looks. She began her story, saying that she considers herself an\u00a0unattractive woman. 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