{"id":87477,"date":"2024-10-31T08:17:58","date_gmt":"2024-10-31T01:17:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/?p=87477"},"modified":"2024-10-31T08:17:58","modified_gmt":"2024-10-31T01:17:58","slug":"how-my-daughters-tears-showed-me-my-husband-betrayed-our-promise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/how-my-daughters-tears-showed-me-my-husband-betrayed-our-promise\/","title":{"rendered":"How My Daughter\u2019s Tears Showed Me My Husband Betrayed Our Promise"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I thought my marriage was loving, but over the past few years I\u2019ve seen it fall apart. Nathan, my nine-year-old husband, had become mean and was always making fun of how I looked and how I raised my kids.\n</p><p>I stayed even though he was mean because I hoped things would get better. Then Nathan got a new job in a different place, so we moved. I thought that this new start would make our relationship stronger.\n<figure id='\"attachment_3584\"' aria-describedby='\"caption-attachment-3584\"' style='\"width:' class='\"wp-caption' aligncenter><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' class='\"wp-image-3584' size-full src="%5C%22http:%5C/%5C/artinsured.xyz%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/10%5C/2-54.webp%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"768\"' height='\"512\"' title='\"\"'><figcaption id='\"caption-attachment-3584\"' class='\"wp-caption-text\"'>For illustrative purposes only\n<p>She wouldn\u2019t say why at first. I found her crying one day, and she told me a shocking truth.\n</p><p>Nathan\u2019s teacher, Miss Allen, told him she would be a better mum to Ellie. I could feel the ground give way below me. Nathan\u2019s sudden friendliness, the move, and this news all added up to a terrible picture: he was cheating on her.\n</p><p>That night, I talked to Nathan about it. His guilty look confirmed what I already thought. He was seeing someone else before we moved, and Miss Allen wanted more. They got back in touch two weeks before Ellie heard them.\n</p><p>When I talked to Miss Allen the next day, she denied everything. I moved Ellie to a different school so she wouldn\u2019t be caught in the middle of Nathan\u2019s cheating.\n<figure id='\"attachment_3586\"' aria-describedby='\"caption-attachment-3586\"' style='\"width:' class='\"wp-caption' aligncenter><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' class='\"wp-image-3586' size-full src="%5C%22http:%5C/%5C/artinsured.xyz%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2024%5C/10%5C/4-47.webp%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"768\"' height='\"512\"' title='\"\"'><figcaption id='\"caption-attachment-3586\"' class='\"wp-caption-text\"'>For illustrative purposes only\n<p>The split was inevitable, and even though it hurt, I was glad it was over. Our pain from Nathan\u2019s deception had been building up for too long.\n</p><p>After months, I\u2019m still thinking about Ellie and telling her of my love. She has forgotten about Miss Allen and is doing great with her new teacher.\n<figure id='\"attachment_3587\"' aria-describedby='\"caption-attachment-3587\"' style='\"width:' class='\"wp-caption' aligncenter><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' class='\"wp-image-3587' size-full src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/echowoven.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2021%5C/05%5C/is-it-safe-shampoo-and-blow-dry-clients-coronavirus-1.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"600\"' height='\"600\"' title='\"\"' srcset='\"https:\/\/echowoven.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/is-it-safe-shampoo-and-blow-dry-clients-coronavirus-1.jpg' https: sizes='\"auto,'><figcaption id='\"caption-attachment-3587\"' class='\"wp-caption-text\"'>For illustrative purposes only\n<p>Nathan is free to come and go as he pleases, but I care most about Ellie\u2019s health. Her tears showed that Nathan had lied to her, which kept me from getting into a bad marriage.\n</p><p>I learnt that love sometimes means letting go and putting the people who really matter first.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>I thought my marriage was loving, but over the past few years I\u2019ve seen it fall apart. Nathan, my nine-year-old husband, had become mean and was always making fun of how I looked and how I raised my kids. I stayed even though he was mean because I hoped things would get better. 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